August 7, 2026 at 5:35 pm

“I Paid Him to Pet Sit!”: Sister Outraged After Brother Demands She Buy His Expensive Preferred Foods

by Heide Lazaro

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Mixing money and family favors can get complicated fast.

The following story involves a woman who paid her brother to pet-sit, but didn’t want to keep buying his expensive food preferences.

While she had plenty of food at home, he preferred pricier items from a previous diet plan.

Now that her budget is tighter with college, she’s questioning if that extra cost is necessary.

Read the full story below for all the details.

AITA for not wanting to buy extra food for my brother when he pet sits for me?

I am paying my brother to pet sit for me while I am out of town for 2 1/2 days and 2 nights.

The last time he did this, I offered to buy some food for him.

I knew he was on a strict diet. It was expensive on top of paying him for the pet sitting.

This woman noticed that her brother’s preferred food was quite expensive.

Though he is not on that diet anymore, he still likes certain things from it.

These things are steak, pre-made protein shakes, and no sugar energy drinks.

They are all expensive on their own.

Even more expensive when bought all at once.

Now, she’s planning to tell him to just bring his own food.

I have plenty of food at my house. I tell him to help himself to it.

It is not like he would not have anything to eat.

Since the last time he pet sat, I have gone back to college. I do not have as much money to spare.

Would I be the jerk if I told him he needed to bring his own food if he wanted certain things to eat?

Hmmm… it sounds like expectations got set a little too high the first time around.

I agree with OP that she has already been paying him to pet sit, and it comes with food from her kitchen.

So covering specialty items on top of that isn’t really required.

I think it’s fair to draw the line now, especially if her budget has changed. Do you agree?

Let’s find out what others have to say about this.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

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Here’s another honest opinion.

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This one is also siding with OP.

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People are saying the same thing.

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Finally, short and simple.

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Getting paid to pet sit shouldn’t come with a free steak.

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Heide Lazaro is a veteran human-interest writer and digital culture expert with over a decade of experience in editorial strategy. Specializing in lifestyle, social dynamics, and the internet's most compelling stories, Heide has authored and published more than 10 books online. Beyond her daily reporting, she is a dedicated motivational speaker who helps audiences connect through the power of storytelling. When she isn't sifting through the web's wildest real-life drama, Heide is an avid runner, painter, and novel-enthusiast fueled by a truly excellent cup of coffee.