October 18, 2024 at 12:50 am

Wife Buys Husband Anniversary Gift That Comes With A Bonus Gift Card, But Her Decision To Keep It For Another Present Sparks A Dispute

by Diana Whelan

Source: Reddit/AITA/Pexels/Kim Stiver

When an anniversary present came with a bonus gift card, this wife decided to use it toward a future Christmas gift for her husband.

But now he’s feeling shortchanged, and she’s wondering if she made a misstep.

Read on for the story!

AITA for keeping a gift card I received when purchasing a gift for someone else?

For our wedding anniversary, I bought my husband a $200 rangefinder.

The store was running a promotion where you’d get a $50 gift card with the purchase.

My husband knew about the deal, so when I gave him the gift, he asked where the gift card was.

Since you couldn’t use the gift card on the original purchase, I used it to buy him a Christmas gift that he won’t get until December.

Score!

He said it left an “icky taste in his mouth” because when questioned about the amount spent I told him I spent $215, but he thinks it only counts as $165 because of the gift card.

For context, my card was charged $214.99 for the rangefinder.

I explained that I used the gift card toward a separate $215 Christmas gift, so technically, I’ve only spent $165 on Christmas so far.

I’m sorry, are we really keeping track here?

Here’s where I’m confused: When I asked him for additional gift ideas, he told me I had spent enough.

But later, he said he was expecting to get the $50 gift card with the rangefinder, and that’s why he originally said I didn’t need to get him anything else.

For our anniversary, he got me a necklace (on sale for $190) and a Lululemon bag for $40.

That doesn’t seem fair…

Now I’m feeling bad, and I don’t know if I did something wrong or if I’m overthinking it.

AITA?

So…was it a clever budgeting move or an unintended gift foul?

Reddit has a few choice words for the husband—mostly that he’s out of his mind.

Source: Reddit/AITA

This person just can’t understand or fathom the thinking at all.

Source: Reddit/AITA

This person thinks he has no idea what the sentiment of gift giving means.

Source: Reddit/AITA

A $50 gift card doesn’t seem like much—until it sparks a holiday-sized debate!

This guy has way too much time on his hands.

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