March 16, 2025 at 5:49 am

He Gave His Co-Worker A Ride To Work When His Car Broke Down, But When The Co-Worker Made An Insensitive Joke, He Decided To Pump The Brakes On His Kindness

by Benjamin Cottrell

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A good deed should be appreciated, not taken for granted. Some people, however, don’t seem to know the difference.

After one employee overheard a rude joke at his expense, he realized that his generosity had turned into a free taxi service for his co-worker.

Read on for the full story!

AITA: for refusing to give my coworker a ride after he called me his “personal chauffeur”?

I have a coworker who lives near me, and I’ve given him a ride to work a few times before.

Well, his car is now in the shop needing work, and he asked for a ride again.

Not a big deal — he even asked if I could stop by the store for him to pick up groceries, and again, I didn’t mind since I had nothing else going on.

But then a joke put a bad taste in his mouth,

Earlier, I heard him joking about how I’m his “personal chauffeur” and that “he didn’t need to rush his car getting fixed.”

He asked me for a ride again today after work, and I told him no, bringing up what I heard him say.

The co-worker tries to deflect, but there’s no going back from what he heard.

He said I was overreacting and that he was just kidding.

I didn’t give him a ride home, and he had to pay for an Uber.

AITA for not giving him a ride home, or was his “joking” as rude as I took it?

Looks like someone just lost their ride ticket! And rightfully so.

What did Reddit think?

Regardless of how the co-worker’s words were interpreted, it’s clear he’s in the wrong here.

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It’s always good to be generous, but people like this co-worker just take it for granted.

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If he keeps up this uncomfortable banter, it could spell trouble.

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A favor is a kindness, not a contract.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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