April 14, 2025 at 1:15 pm

His Girlfriend Made Him Break Off A Female Friendship, But Kept Her Guy Friend Connection. So He Called Her Out On It And Broke It Off.

by Heide Lazaro

Man and woman arguing outside the door

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A relationship is a two-way street.

This man cut off a female friend that his girlfriend wasn’t comfortable with.

When he asked his girlfriend to do the same thing to a male friend, she refused.

Now he’s wondering if he overreacted by breaking up with her.

Read the story below for all the details.

AITAH for breaking up with my gf because she refuses to cut off guy friend after I did the same for her?

Some years back, I had a new co-worker join our office.

She was cool and actually pretty nerdy.

We started gaming together.

This man cut her off because it made his girlfriend uncomfortable.

My GF expressed clear discomfort over this.

It was a bit of a fight, and eventually, I agreed to stop spending time with my new co-worker outside of work.

My GF was very happy with this.

In the same way, he was uncomfortable with his GF’s male friend.

Now, recently, my GF met a new guy friend.

He’s a cousin of one of her current friends, and they have been spending a lot of time together.

I expressed my discomfort with this, and nothing has changed.

My GF insists that nothing is happening, much like how I did.

He broke up with her when she refused to do anything about it.

After talking to her one last time, I had enough.

Enough of her spending time with this dude.

And I’ve had it with her refusing to do anything, despite me asking her to.

I broke up with her and I reminded her of what she asked of me all those years back.

I hope he reminded her of what he did for her before breaking up with her. If she understood, maybe she would’ve agreed to stop hanging out with him.

Let’s check out the comments of other people on Reddit.

Good call, says this person.

Screenshot 2025 04 06 at 8.44.57 PM His Girlfriend Made Him Break Off A Female Friendship, But Kept Her Guy Friend Connection. So He Called Her Out On It And Broke It Off.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

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This person describes her as “hypocritical.”

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Here’s another valid point.

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Finally, people agree with breaking up with her.

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If she can’t play fair, you’re better off without her.

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