Her Friend Showed Up With A Dog, But The Friend Couldn’t Believe It When She Was Asked To Leave
by Matthew Gilligan

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Let me ask you a question…
If you were going to stay at a friend’s house for a few days and you were planning on bringing a pet, you’d let them know, right?
I know I would!
And I think most people would agree with me…
And that’s why the woman who wrote this story on Reddit was thrown for a loop when her friend showed up at her place…with a dog.
Did she act like a jerk?
Let’s see what’s going on here!
AITA for not letting my friend stay at my place after she showed up uninvited with her dog?
“I (24F) have a pretty small apartment—two bedrooms, one bathroom, and not a lot of space.
I love my place, but it’s definitely cozy.
You brought a dog?
Recently, my friend Lara (25F) called me and said she was coming to town for a couple of days and asked if she could stay at my place.
We’re close, so I said yes, no problem—but here’s the kicker: she showed up with her dog and didn’t mention it beforehand.
Now, I love animals, but my apartment is not pet-friendly, and I’m allergic to dogs.
I’ve mentioned my allergies to her before, and she knows I’m not the biggest fan of having pets in small spaces.
When she arrived, I was polite and offered to help her find a nearby pet-friendly hotel, but she started insisting that I should just let her keep her dog at my place for the night.
She said, “It’s just for a couple of days, can’t you just suck it up?”
Jeez…
I told her that I didn’t feel comfortable with her dog being there, especially since I would be miserable with my allergies and it’s really just too small for a dog to be running around.
She got really upset, saying that I was being unreasonable and overreacting and that I was “ruining her trip.”
Well, that’s settled!
I ended up telling her she could either leave the dog in a kennel or find another place to stay.
She left and didn’t speak to me for a couple of days.
A few of my mutual friends think I should have been more accommodating, but I think I have a right to prioritize my health and comfort.
AITA for not letting her stay with her dog?”
Check out what folks had to say about this on Reddit.
This person said she’s NTA.
Another Reddit user agreed.
This person shared their thoughts.
Another individual weighed in.
And this person said she’s NTA.
It’s pretty inconsiderate to bring a pet without telling someone…
That’s putting it mildly, really.
If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.

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