April 11, 2025 at 5:49 am

Young Renter Has A Landlord Who’s A Little Too Available, But He Doesn’t Know How To Shake Them Off Without Losing Their Place

by Chelsea Mize

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Landlords can get a bad rap. Mostly for being absentee misers with dollar signs for eyes.

But this story, we’ve got a different kind of bad landlord: one who’s always home.

Let’s see if this rent is worth the hassle.

AITA: Landlord is Very Involved

I(27m) am introverted. I am very clean.

I am not loud or troublesome.

I always pay my rent on time and follow the rules.

From my perspective, I would be a landlord’s dream.

I was gonna say, sounds like a dream tenant, right?

My landlord is constantly present when I am leaving or coming into my apartment, this is the case above 75% of the time.

Well, you can’t say he’s hands off, I guess.

In a friendly manner, he asks where I am going to, or where I am coming from.

I am not always ready to talk. I want to take the garbage out, or get food, or basically live my life without question from anyone else.

There are (ring) cameras that indicate “you are being recorded” whenever I leave or when I am arriving.

A little Big Brother, but we live in an age of technology.

I appreciate the concerted effort to be my friend; or care about my well being.

However, I really do wish to be left alone and keep this relationship strictly professional.

Sounds like the landlord might have other ideas.

I inquired about his interest and he just said he was curious, and trying to be helpful.

I may have been mistaken, but my attitude towards him had been, “I have a lot to do, I am an adult so I’m on my way.”

This has seemed to be taken angrily from his perspective.

AITA?

This is definitely a different kind of landlord woe.

What does our comments section think?

This person says it’s an opportunity to do something for the bit.

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Someone else says, maybe this is somebody’s good neighbor but not yours.

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Another user thinks it’s a good time to set boundaries.

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This poster says pull a Truman Show: “Good morning and in case I don’t see you…”

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And this comment says, creep alert!

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It’s nobody’s business when you want to go about your business.

Especially not someone you should only know in a professional manner.

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