June 20, 2025 at 1:21 am

Their Sister Has Been Ripping Off Their Mom For Years, But Bringing It To Light Caused A Whole New Problem

by Ben Auxier

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Do you ever suspect that that one friend who’s constantly flaunting expensive things on social media is actually pretty broke?

There’s just something about it that never sits well, and usually there’s a good reason for that.

Check out all of the details below.

AITAH for exposing my sister’s financial manipulation of our elderly mom, even though it blew up the family?

My mom (72) is in the early stages of dementia.

She’s still mostly clear-headed but has some confusion—especially when it comes to money.

So surely someone responsible is helping her deal with money, right?

My younger sister “Chloe” (45) has always had a history of asking for financial help.

Over the past few years, I noticed Mom was constantly “lending” Chloe money for things like car repairs, rent, or medical bills.

Chloe always promised to pay her back, but she never did.

You can see where this is going.

Meanwhile, Chloe’s social media told a very different story.

Fancy trips, new gadgets, designer stuff… all while Mom was suddenly being super frugal.

She even stopped buying things she used to enjoy.

It didn’t sit right with me.

Obviously this can’t go on forever before someone notices.

Mom asked me to help her look at her bank statements because she was confused.

With her permission, I started going through them and what I found made my stomach drop.

Chloe had been taking large amounts of money for years—way more than what she claimed she needed.

It wasn’t help anymore, it was financial abuse.

The reaction is predictable as it is petty.

I confronted Chloe, showed her the evidence, and she flipped.

Accused me of being jealous, trying to control Mom, etc.

I gathered everything and showed our other siblings and Mom’s financial advisor.

It was brutal, but the truth was undeniable.

And we’re just living in the aftermath.

Now Chloe’s been cut off, and most of the family has distanced themselves from her.

She’s livid, saying I destroyed her life and tore the family apart.

Mom’s heartbroken by the conflict, which absolutely kills me.

Some relatives think I should’ve handled it quietly or just let it go for the sake of Mom’s peace.

So… AITAH for bringing this all into the open and protecting Mom, even though it caused a huge family rift?

Here’s what the comments had to say:

2025 05 26 19 56 08 Their Sister Has Been Ripping Off Their Mom For Years, But Bringing It To Light Caused A Whole New Problem

You didn’t fail your family, your sister did.

2025 05 26 19 56 18 Their Sister Has Been Ripping Off Their Mom For Years, But Bringing It To Light Caused A Whole New Problem

Come on, Chloe.

2025 05 26 19 56 27 Their Sister Has Been Ripping Off Their Mom For Years, But Bringing It To Light Caused A Whole New Problem

Why would anyone be ok with this?

2025 05 26 19 56 41 Their Sister Has Been Ripping Off Their Mom For Years, But Bringing It To Light Caused A Whole New Problem

Sounds like Chloe got off easy, honestly.

It was about time.

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