June 7, 2025 at 4:23 pm

Couple Went To Bed But The Wife Conveniently Forgot Her Water, So He Tried To Guilt Him Into Getting It For Her

by Chelsea Mize

woman staring through water glass

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Many of us had asked our significant other for an unreasonable favor when we’re just feeling lazy.

In this story, a small favor turns into a big fight.

Let’s drink it up.

AITA for not going downstairs to get my wife’s water for her

Last night, my wife and I went to bed.

I got straight in bed, she went to the toilet first, came back in the room, still with her pyjamas on, and sat on the bed.

She said my name in a way where I knew something was going to be asked, but she didn’t ask me yet.

Then, she proceeded to undress.

Sounds like the preamble to a funny marital spat…

This was then followed by her asking me to go get her bottle of water from downstairs as she had forgotten it.

I said no as I was already in bed and she knew she had forgotten it before she got in bed.

I felt as though she was just mugging me off a bit.

There was some back and forth where I ended up taking a glass I had taken upstairs earlier, going into the en-suite and pouring her a glass of water, which she then refused.

Wat-er you waiting for, lady?

She went mardy, starting to turn over and argue with me.

I won’t lie, this did get to me.

I shouldn’t have argued back and started a full blown debate, but it got to me me that she seemed to want to start an argument because I wouldn’t go get the water she wanted.

Her lips were dry, he couldn’t hold his tongue… would they get over it?

We’ve woken up today and she’s still mad, telling me I started the argument and that I was being mean by getting annoyed at her for it basically.

She is making out as though what she asked for was not massive and I could’ve just done it and obviously everything would be okay.

But I don’t feel as though I am in the wrong for saying no, because I got her water in a glass.

To me, it seems as if she is angry because I didn’t do exactly what she wanted me to do.

Can they build a bridge over this water trouble?

She now says she does lots of things for me without me realizing and I wouldn’t go do that for her last night, which I don’t think is fair either.

Was this hubby wrong to pick a fight?

What do our comments think?

This Scot has a good platitude for the occasion…

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Someone else says entitled, much?

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This person is like, uh she has legs right?

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This person says, NTA, NGM (Never Get Married).

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Someone else snarkily says, happy wife doesn’t equal happy husband.

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You can lead a wife to tap water, but you can’t make her drink.

What a piece of work.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.