Feeling a bit of jealousy is normal in a relationship, and some say it’s even healthy.

In this situation, a woman’s jealousy made her fiancé lose his job and possibly hurt their relationship to the point of no return.

But after her friend called her out on her unhinged behavior, she turned on her.

Now she’s asking herself and the internet if she was in the wrong for saying what she said.

Read the story and see how everything played out.

AITA for telling my friend that their breakup was their fault?

So my friend (29f) has been with her now ex fiancé (28m) for about 2 years.

In this time they have already broken up, got back together, moved in and had a baby.

In the last year and a half, she has been confronting him about cheating when it’s been impossible for him to do so.

She can’t believe he is loyal to her. And her suspicions caused issues.

She had already through her actions of following him to work and calling him on shift, got him fired from one job and recently has started following him in his new job trying to catch him cheat with his boss. (40+f)

So it has come to a disagreement and they have decided to break up.

But she still doesn’t see how her actions contributed to this.

She has been talking to me, saying he has ended the relationship and is being cruel to her for no reason, so he must be hiding things.

I admit I lost my patience and I noted:

“No, it hasn’t been for “no reason.” You’ve been accusing him of cheating for months, been unpleasant to his boss when she has dropped him home when it was raining, and sabotaging his day by hiding his items he uses to get ready, every work day”.

She was honest, but she felt offended.

She has said I’m taking his side, when really, he hasn’t got the time to cheat as all he does is work, come home and watches some TV after a 14 hour shift.

She is now having an attitude with me.

AITA?

Having an honest friend is a blessing. She is just not appreciating it.

I’m curious to see if Reddit has any insight into this situation.

A reader shares their thoughts.

This commenter warns her.

Yup.

This person shares their point of view.

Another reader chimes in.

Another heads up.

Her friend doesn’t realize her obsession made her lose her fiancé anyway.

If she keeps acting like this, she will lose a friend as well.

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