July 16, 2025 at 4:24 am

Woman Wore A Mini Dress During A Second Date But Didn’t Shave Her Legs, So Her Date Made A Subtle Remark About It

by Heide Lazaro

Man and woman enjoying their casual outdoor date

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Dating can put a lot of pressure on people, but should you change who you are just so your date likes you?

This woman decided not to shave her legs for a second date.

The date went fine, but the guy made a comment about her legs that made her feel uneasy.

Did she mess up, or is this a reg flag?

Read the full story below for all the details.

AITA for not shaving my legs before a date and making him uncomfortable?

I (26F) went on a second date with a guy.

I wore a mini dress and didn’t shave my legs.

They weren’t super hairy, just a bit visible up close.

I just didn’t feel like it and don’t always do it unless I want to.

This woman received a text from her date.

The date was nice.

But later he texted:

“Next time, maybe smooth legs? 😅”

I felt kinda weird about that.

She believes she doesn’t have to change her ways for someone she barely knows.

My friend said I should’ve shaved because it’s early dating.

But I don’t think I should change my body for someone I barely know.

AITA for not shaving and possibly making him uncomfortable?

I don’t think this relationship is meant to be!

What do you think about this? Let’s see what others have to say on Reddit.

Find a better man, advises this person.

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This user gives their honest opinion.

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This person offers a good response.

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This person shares their personal thoughts.

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Finally, short and simple.

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Your body, your choice.

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Heide Lazaro is a veteran human-interest writer and digital culture expert with over a decade of experience in editorial strategy. Specializing in lifestyle, social dynamics, and the internet's most compelling stories, Heide has authored and published more than 10 books online. Beyond her daily reporting, she is a dedicated motivational speaker who helps audiences connect through the power of storytelling. When she isn't sifting through the web's wildest real-life drama, Heide is an avid runner, painter, and novel-enthusiast fueled by a truly excellent cup of coffee.