October 9, 2025 at 11:55 am

College Student Gets Ready For Her Shift Late At Night, But Her Dorm Mate Keeps Complaining That It Wakes Her Up

by Ashley Ashbee

Woman smiling in bed wearing an eye mask

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Living in a shared dorm room is far from an ideal living situation, but it often works fine.

But sometimes it doesn’t if you have a different schedule from your roommate.

See how this student feels about it.

AITA for leaving my shared dorm room in the middle of the night?

I am in my third year of college and I live in a shared dorm with a roommate and I also work.

I leave for work anywhere from 1-4am, depending on the start time needed to get the work done before the cutoff.

She has a good system for getting out quietly.

I do this 5-6 days per week.

I have a vibrating wrist alarm that wakes me up and I pack a bag of everything I need before I go to sleep.

I wake up and I slip out of the room to get ready in the shared bathroom and then I go to work.

But it’s not working for her dorm mate.

It’s only been a couple weeks in the dorms and my roommate has been complaining that I am waking her up and I can’t keep doing this.

She says the light from the hall when I open the door wakes her up and she can’t go back to sleep.

I have offered multiple times to buy her a good sleep mask! She refuses and says she doesn’t want to wear one and shouldn’t have to.

I need to work and changing jobs is not a viable option, so I’m going to have to keep doing this.

AITA for leaving for work in the early hours of the morning when I am in a shared dorm room?

Here is what people are saying.

It’s not jail!

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She should be grateful for this.

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Exactly. What a diva.

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Mediation would be good.

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I’m sure she does things that annoy you!

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I lived at home with my parents and sister when I was a university student. Way better.

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