October 20, 2025 at 3:15 pm

Boyfriend Told His Girlfriend He Wished She Could Be Fat Again So She Would Never Leave Him, So The Girlfriend Broke Up With Him

by Sarrah Murtaza

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Isn’t it heartbreaking when people use your insecurities against you?

Imagine working really hard to lose weight, and then your boyfriend tells you he wants you to be fat.

Would you feel hurt?

This woman was in that situation, and she was really upset with her boyfriend.

Now, she’s wondering if she overreacted.

Check out how things got bad between them!

AITA for dumping my boyfriend for “joking” that he hopes I get fat again so I wouldn’t leave him nor cheat on him ?

I (27f) have been overweight for most of my life and I’m currently at a healthy weight.

I’ve been dating this man (31m) since the start of the year.

This is where it gets bad!

We were looking through pictures younger pictures of me.

My boyfriend said he hopes I get fat again so I wouldn’t leave him nor cheat on him.

My heart broke.

She hated it!

He must have noticed how hurt I look because he started saying it’s just a bad joke.

Even in the best case scenario that it was truly a joke, it’s a truly cruel joke.

I broke up with him.

He’s trying his best to get me to forgive him but I can’t.

AITA?

YIKES! That sounds terrible.

Why would he comment on his girlfriend’s insecurity?

Let’s find out what folks on Reddit think about this one.

This user knows she is not at fault here!

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This user knows what the guy wants…

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This girl hates how her husband treats her after pregnancy!

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This user believes she deserves better!

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Exactly! This user thinks the boyfriend just has shallow thinking.

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Someone’s being really mean here!

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