October 10, 2025 at 10:55 pm

Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

by Michael Levanduski

Mom and son arguing about money

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When you are a kid it can be fun to start saving for your future.

What would you do if you saved up $10,000 but then when you went to check your account, you discovered that your mom had stolen it all?

That is what happened to the young man in this story, and when he confronted her, she kicked him out of the house.

Check it out.

AITA for not paying back my mom the full amount?

I, (23m), had been saving all my life and saved up to ~$10,000 in my savings account at 18.

Very impressive, and lots of hard work.

It was a joint account, & i was totally unaware of the fact that you can take out money without my consent or me knowing even.

What? Why would they do this!?

My mom & elder sibling decided to take out ALL my money, without me even realizing.

I had no clue anyone could do that and me not even getting any sort of notice. When i checked my bank account, I was shocked to say the least.

So, this is straight up theft.

They kicked me out when i confronted them.

I had no money to pay for college, and I felt like they did theft against me.

They used it to pay for their groceries, mortgage, cars, etc- while I’m out here paying rent & unsure what the future holds against me.

It is mom’s job to pay for braces, etc.

We’ve argued about this often, but mom had paid for my braces when i was ~14 & I agreed to paying her back the full amount ($4000) at the time.

Absolutely. Don’t give them another dime.

I had paid her $2500 but decided not to pay the whole amount due to what her & elder sibling did. I’m ashamed to even call them family anymore.

I had become homeless on my 20th birthday because of this & was jobless also. I’m lucky to even be here…

Try to forgive, but never trust them again.

I have always found ways to try and forgive them, but I cant. I have a pure heart & I always try to see the good in people, but this situation has devastated me.

They did not help me when I was homeless. I’ve been civil with them not bringing up the situation, but I just can’t stand them anymore.

A terrible family. He is underreacting!

I don’t know what kind of family does this.. am I overreacting??

AITA for not paying back the rest of $1500 & feeling like they robbed me & my future?

Absolutely not. He does not owe her anything, and in fact, mom owes him thousands.

Let’s see what the people in the comments have to say about this terrible situation.

Never give her a dime. Ever.

comment 1 52 Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

This person can’t believe how bad the mom is.

Comment 2 52 Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

This commenter says she is a terrible parent. I agree.

Comment 3 51 Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

You really can’t trust anyone.

Comment 4 37 Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

Yup, she stole from him and he should do everything he can to hold her accountable.

Comment 5 34 Young Man Saved Money His Whole Childhood, But Then He Discovered That His Mom Had Stolen All $10,000

This is financial abuse by a terrible mother.

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Senior Contributing Editor, Workplace & Community

Michael Levanduski is a veteran journalist and digital culture specialist with over 15 years of professional writing and research experience. While his background spans emerging technology and complex technical subjects, Michael specializes in analyzing workplace ethics, property disputes, and viral interpersonal dynamics across modern digital forums.

Since joining TwistedSifter in 2024, Michael has authored some of the publication’s most widely read coverage on corporate policy, malicious compliance, and neighborhood relations. Rather than simply aggregating online debates, he brings rigorous research, organizational context, and an empathetic editorial voice to everyday human dilemmas—transforming raw forum discussions into insightful, highly engaging narratives.

When he isn’t covering internet culture, Michael enjoys traveling, keeping up with tech trends, and spending time with his family. Connect with Michael on LinkedIn and Facebook.