December 14, 2025 at 6:35 pm

Colleague Tried Helping A Coworker Fix His Slow Laptop, But After The Coworker Refused Basic Troubleshooting And Blamed Him For The Slowdown, He Decided He Was Done Helping For Good

by Heather Hall

IT employee trying to help a colleague fix his slow laptop

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Helping people isn’t always as easy as it should be.

So, what would you do if a coworker begged you to look at their painfully slow laptop, only to ignore every fix you suggested and then try to blame you for making it slow?

Would you take the blame? Or would you remind them why they called you in the first place?

In the following story, one colleague finds himself in this situation and decides to speak up.

Here’s what happened.

Sometimes I don’t like helping people

I’m not in tech support, but on rare occasions, I do some troubleshooting for colleagues and decide if something can be fixed in-office (software) or needs a proper technician (hardware).

A colleague asked me to take a look at his laptop. His Microsoft Word is slowing down, and Excel is not responding, with a very slow laptop performance. Turns out he has 10+ Chrome tabs open, several Word windows, several Excel windows, and has not rebooted his laptop in weeks.

The real trouble happens when I tell him to save and close the windows, then reboot. Conversation as follows:

He tried to convince his colleague to do it quickly.

Colleague: “But Doragon, how do I do work if I close them?”

Doragon(me): “Then continue from where you left off. Reboot only takes a minute anyway.”

Colleague: “I need all these files. What happens if they disappear?”

Doragon: “That’s why you should save them. Now do it.”

Then, the guy started blaming him.

Colleague: “Never mind, I’ll do it later. But the laptop is still slow. What did you do to make it so slow?”

Angry_Doragon: “OI! Hello! You asked me to check it because it was slow, and you now blame me?!”

At that point, I told him to handle his own problems and went off elsewhere. Always refused to help him after that. I swear, some people exist to irritate others.

Wow! That guy sounds like something else!

Let’s see if the people over at Reddit have ever dealt with someone like this.

This person’s go-to question involves a reboot.

Helping People 4 Colleague Tried Helping A Coworker Fix His Slow Laptop, But After The Coworker Refused Basic Troubleshooting And Blamed Him For The Slowdown, He Decided He Was Done Helping For Good

Some people don’t believe things until they’ve heard them from multiple people.

Helping People 1 Colleague Tried Helping A Coworker Fix His Slow Laptop, But After The Coworker Refused Basic Troubleshooting And Blamed Him For The Slowdown, He Decided He Was Done Helping For Good

For this retiree, they don’t miss helping people like this.

Helping People 2 Colleague Tried Helping A Coworker Fix His Slow Laptop, But After The Coworker Refused Basic Troubleshooting And Blamed Him For The Slowdown, He Decided He Was Done Helping For Good

According to this comment, helping people with disabilities is more rewarding than IT.

Helping People 3 Colleague Tried Helping A Coworker Fix His Slow Laptop, But After The Coworker Refused Basic Troubleshooting And Blamed Him For The Slowdown, He Decided He Was Done Helping For Good

Sounds like he needs serious help.

Like the kind of help that comes from a basic computer course. Geez.

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Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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