December 16, 2025 at 7:15 am

Former Coworker Left The Job But Not The Work Group Chat, So A Current Employee Kicked Her Out Of The Chat Months Later

by Liberty Canlas

Woman doing a customer's hair in a salon

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Some people do not understand implicit group chat etiquette.

The salon employee in this story was wondering why her former coworker was still in the work group chat months after she left. So she finally kicked her out, but she’s unsure if she was being rude.

Read the full story below.

AITA for kicking out my EX-coworker from the team group chat?

At the salon where I work, we have a group chat (on Snapchat) where we stay connected and share photos of our kids, talk about team events and coffee orders, things like that.

Over the time that I’ve worked here, we’ve had multiple people leave for other jobs and opportunities, but they also remove themselves from the chat.

It’s always been an understanding that the chat is for current employees. It’s never a big deal, you leave the job, you leave the chat.

This salon employee finally kicked their former coworker out of the group chat.

We had a coworker that left in May, and it was very civil. There wasn’t any bad blood, she was opening her own business, we were all happy for her.

But here’s the thing, she never left the chat.

For months she would continue to have opinions on things that don’t affect her anymore, new products, system updates, etc.

Ma’am, why do you care?

It’s one thing not to leave the chat, but to comment on things is weird!

Other readers on Reddit shared their opinions.

Here are some valid points.

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This person finds the story relatable.

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This person shares an opinion.

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Here’s a possible solution.

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And this person chimed in.

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If it doesn’t concern you, just leave the group chat.

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Liberty Canlas | Contributing Writer, Lifestyle & Relationships

Liberty Canlas is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in relationship dynamics, social sciences, and modern family life. Leveraging her extensive professional background in scientific research and data analysis, Liberty brings a highly analytical yet empathetic approach to dissecting viral online conflicts and social media trends.

Rather than simply reporting on internet drama, Liberty uses her deep understanding of human cognition and behavior to explain why people react the way they do. She excels at transforming complex interpersonal debates into relatable, insightful commentary that helps readers better understand human interaction.

Outside of her editorial work, Liberty embraces a holistic, "semi-crunchy" lifestyle as a dedicated homeschooling mother. When she isn’t analyzing the latest trending relationship dilemma, she spends her time meticulously researching and planning her family’s next global travel adventure.

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