September 9, 2026 at 10:35 pm

A Woman Kept Awake Night After Night by Her Downstairs Neighbor’s Deafening Music Is Forced to Take Action—Here’s How She Handled the Constant Disturbance

by Heide Lazaro

A phone and speaker placed on the surface of a desk

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Good neighbors can make apartment living peaceful, but difficult neighbors can quickly make it unbearable.

In this story, a woman and her partner lived above a neighbor who constantly blasted loud music late into the night.

The neighbor’s dogs also made noise in the early hours, while he regularly shouted and swore outside.

With work starting at 6 a.m., they were desperate for sleep and considered fighting back with their own speaker.

Do you think that would be a good solution? Read the full story below to find out more.

Angel above, devil below

I rent a flat with my partner on the first floor of a two-story converted terraced house.

The guy upstairs is one of the nicest people I’ve met.

He lets me know when he is carrying out renovations or has people staying.

He also actively repairs the communal areas.

This woman describes the kind of neighbor they have living below them.

On the other hand, the guy below is a jerk.

We have the misfortune of our bedroom window looking out onto their garden, where three very plump dogs are all day.

I have never seen them walked ever. He spends all day out there shouting and swearing to himself.

He built a kennel to lock his yapping dogs outside.

But now they scratch against this in the early hours of the morning, which constantly wakes us up.

He puts a padlock on his bin, which I’m thinking of cutting off.

The music was so loud that it’s keeping them awake.

The worst part is the music.

Almost every night, a routine electronic beat plays and thumps through to our bedroom above.

I’ve tried asking him to turn it down, but every next time, this seems to get louder.

Both own their flats and do not work.

She’s wondering what else they can do to deal with this problem.

My partner and I normally need to leave at 6 am, but this constant booming keeps us up most nights now.

I was thinking of buying a woofer and leaving it on the floor all day.

I can’t really get my landlord involved because it’s not their problem.

Is there anything else I can do to make noise for below and not above.

We are actively trying to move elsewhere.

Ugh! I can understand the frustration OP and her partner are going through.

Some neighbors can really be inconsiderate, and the landlord not intervening also adds to the problem.

I think retaliating with more noise might feel satisfying, but it could easily turn the situation into an even bigger neighbor war.

Let’s read the responses of other people to this story.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

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This one offers some advice.

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If you enjoyed this story, check out this post about a home buyer who was surprised to learn his neighbors were upset about him removing a fence.

Call the council, says this person.

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Finally, here’s an honest opinion.

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Some neighbors don’t know the meaning of quiet.

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Heide Lazaro is a veteran human-interest writer and digital culture expert with over a decade of experience in editorial strategy. Specializing in lifestyle, social dynamics, and the internet's most compelling stories, Heide has authored and published more than 10 books online. Beyond her daily reporting, she is a dedicated motivational speaker who helps audiences connect through the power of storytelling. When she isn't sifting through the web's wildest real-life drama, Heide is an avid runner, painter, and novel-enthusiast fueled by a truly excellent cup of coffee.