August 27, 2024 at 4:49 pm

Homeowners Are Fed Up With Strangers Invading Their Private Backyard For The View, But Some People Are Shaming Them For Enforcing Their Land’s Boundaries

by Heather Hall

Source: Reddit/AITA/Unsplash/Michael Heuser

When you have a backyard with amazing views, it’s understandable that others may want to take a peek.

But what do you do when your private space turns into the neighborhood’s favorite lookout?

In the following story, the homeowner just wants a little privacy, but no one else likes that idea at all.

Let’s learn more about what’s going on.

AITA for not wanting people to traipse through our backyard to look at the view?

We live in a community (250 homes), and our home and one other are on top of a hill with amazing views.

We are on a cul-de-sac, so to see the views, you either need to be in one of our homes or in the shallow backyards.

There are no fences (we can’t build one), but it is very obvious that it’s not open to the public. Also, the edge of our backyards drop off very steeply into a rocky decline, which is dangerous.

We both have screened-in porches that go the entire length of the backside of our homes. They are totally private unless someone is in the backyard, so it’s nice to relax outside after a shower.

Our next-door neighbors and we are very private people. We don’t want random strangers wandering around our backyards.

They have put up two signs along the long driveway.

One is a small stop sign below the community-installed sign that says ”Private Driveway,” and the other says, “These premises are under video surveillance 24/7,” as we both have Ring doorbells and security cameras.

We hoped this would be a deterrent.

The signs obviously do not work.

People still drive or walk up and come in back to look at the view. Sometimes I have been caught in just a towel after a shower or sunbathing.

When we ask their answer is always “we’re just looking at the view.”

Yesterday, a guy and his kid came up, and I was mad.

I asked if he lived here, and he said his dad did.

Then I asked if he had seen the signs along the driveway, and he said he was leaving.

I said, “The signs are there for a reason, “ and his kid asked him if they were in trouble, and the dad said something like, “Some people don’t like to share.”

I have told the people I’ve met here that if they ever want to look at the view, they should just call me and ask.

I have no problem with that; I just want a heads-up.

AITA?

It’s unfortunate that they can’t make a public lookout area.

Here’s what the fine folks over at Reddit had to say about this.

According to this person, the HOA may be able to help.

Source: Reddit/AITA

Landscaping is an excellent idea!

Source: Reddit/AITA

This is excellent advice!

Source: Reddit/AITA

This person explains that US liability laws have changed.

Source: Reddit/AITA

Something needs to give.

It’s not fair that their privacy is constantly being invaded, and the area sounds quite dangerous for trespassers.

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Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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