Sister Was Going To Split Her Inheritance From Her Grandparents With Her Half-Siblings, But They Complained About How It Was Being Done So She Decided To Keep It For Herself
by Michael Levanduski
When you are blessed with an inheritance, it is best not to get greedy and just be thankful for what you received.
What would you do if you decided to share your inheritance with your half-siblings, but they complained about it and even threatened to take you to court?
That is what happened to the sister in this story, so she finally decided to just keep the money for herself.
Check it out.
Half brothers threaten to sue me over 16k. It costs them 158k and possibly their parents’ marriage.
When I (25f) was 3, my grandparents passed away.
They set up a savings account in my name.
The account was meant to be accessed by me when I was 21.
At that point it contained just over 300k.
My grandparents left me a letter saying they would like me to share the money fairly with any other “Smith-Jones” children, meaning my full siblings (dad’s a Smith, mum’s a Jones).
By “fairly” they meant that they wanted me to assess the situation and judge for myself what was fair.
I never had full siblings, but I have 2 half brothers, “Mack and Joe Smith,” who are dad and stepmum’s kids.
Due to the specific wording my grandparents used, I legally never had to give Mack or Joe any money.
However, I see Mack and Joe as my brothers, and as the money came from our grandparents, I felt that the fairest thing would be to assign each of us 100k, so we all got an equal sized lump sum.
I figured that when Mack (the youngest) turned 21 and took his 100k, we could split any remaining money.
When I turned 21, dad suggested I buy a house with my 100k.
I found a place I loved but it was 130k and I couldn’t get a mortgage, so dad said I should borrow 30k from the account.
This is a smart move.
I did, figuring I could pay it back before my brothers turned 21, and I have been repaying it.
The account should be at 208k right now, but due to me withdrawing and then repaying that money it’s at 195k, so I still owe 13k.
Joe turned 21 recently, and as I was giving him his 100k, Joe noticed that there was less in the account than there should be.
I explained and said I was going to put it all back before Mack (now 19) turns 21.
They are just being greedy now.
Joe told Mack and both boys said I stole from them and owed them the full 13k back plus 3 grand of interest that they felt they would have gotten.
They wanted it all paid by this summer, which gave me less than 6 months to bring the account up to 211k.
I said I’d do it, but over 2 years as planned.
The boys then wrote up a contract to that effect.
I went to sign it, until I saw that it said 6 months to pay it all back.
I wouldn’t sign as we agreed on 2 years.
They said I should figure it out as they were entitled to that money and would be seeking legal advice.
Later that day I got an email, clearly written by them, saying that they intend to sue me for the 16k, plus whatever is currently in the account, and additional “damages” and “emotional distress” on top of that.
At this point in time, I’d given Joe about 50k of his 100k, because he wanted it in installments.
I responded that legally, they were never entitled to any of it, and given their attitudes, I’d say they’ve already received an amount I deem fair, so that 50k was all they were getting.
I then got a barrage of texts, calls, and emails yelling at me for going back on our “deal”.
I blocked them.
They then took to social media, saying that I was trying to screw them out of their inheritance and rallying our extended family into harassing me over this.
It mostly worked as a lot of people messaged me.
However, I got a message from this guy called “Chris Smith”.
This is quite a twist in the story.
Chris said he was 27, and claimed to be my half brother.
I had never met him before, but he sent me photos of him as a kid with our dad, grandparents, and me.
He showed me that he also had an account with 150k in it, and a scan of a letter from our grandparents, saying this money was meant to be shared fairly among dad’s illegitimate children.
Chris also told me we have another half sibling, who is 18.
He’d been looking for me for a while, but only found me when dad shared Joe’s post which had me tagged.
We checked with a solicitor to make sure, and as the boys are legitimate, they aren’t entitled to anything in Chris’ illegitimate kid fund.
As they are my half siblings, they aren’t entitled to anything in my Smith-Jones kids fund, either.
I sent the boys a letter formally telling them to back off, stop posting about me online, and enjoy the 50k because it’s all they’re getting.
The day they received the letter, Chris got a PM from dad, asking if the boys can have some of Chris’ fund.
Chris also said no, and told dad we’d met.
I told Mack and Joe about Chris and our other half sibling, with Chris’ permission.
So it looks like my grandparents, knowing about Chris before they passed, set up 2 funds.
The grandparents were very generous.
One for the kids dad had with my mother, who was still his wife when they passed, and one for children born out of dad’s affairs, presumably to make sure no one tried to screw anyone else over out of hurt feelings.
I’m getting a lot of flack, but holding firm on my decision.
The boys have realised that I won’t back down on this and it sounds like I’ve caused a schism at their house.
Joe has all the money and no intention of sharing so Mack is now feeling twice as screwed, plus stepmum apparently did not know about the other half siblings.
Or that my half sister was born after she and dad got married, and she’s made dad move into a hotel.
It sounds like dad is looking for a long term living arrangement outside of the family home, because it looks like she is not letting him move back in.
Dad is begging me to reconsider, but honestly I’m done with all of them except Chris and my sister.
This family sounds like a hot mess.
Read on to see what the people in the comments think about the situation.
I agree with this person.
This is great advice.
The brothers made some huge mistakes.
Yup, they got more than they deserved.
This is 100% true.
These brothers really made a mess of things.
Getting greedy almost never works out in your favor.
If you thought that was an interesting story, check this one out about a man who created a points system for his inheritance, and a family friend ends up getting almost all of it.
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