Planning your own wedding is stressful enough without family meddling.

This woman has been stressing about her fiancé’s family.

They were requesting several changes to be made very close to the wedding date, and she needs the requests to stop!

Check out the full story below.

AITAH for telling my fiancé to relay to his family that our wedding is not up for changes/discussion?

I (24F) am fed up with my fiancé’s (28M) family’s nonsense.

This is all in regards to the wedding planning process.

We are roughly 2 weeks away from the wedding day.

Everything is already very stressful and going to be a race against time.

This woman had been having problems with his fiancé’s family.

I’ve been having issues with his family since the beginning of our engagement.

There was a rift between me and his mother over details about picking my wedding dress.

Then, no one on his side of the family would fill out our address collector/contact form, so we had to change when we would send our wedding invitations twice.

They were being problematic about the wedding planning.

His mom and sister were 4 hours late to my bridal shower.

Women from his family have asked about incorporating white into their outfits.

And we’re still waiting for people to RSVP from his side of things.

And on top of all this, last night, people from his family have another request.

They were asking about inviting extended family to the guest list.

She’s already too stressed out.

I just feel like it’s bad etiquette to behave this way.

I’m stressed out of my mind already.

I’m trying to hunt down people we invited back in February.

I’m getting everything handled with vendors and doing just 5 million other things.

She’s frustrated with his family’s constant inquiries about the wedding.

Maybe they just don’t understand how weddings and wedding planning works.

I just want to be left alone to tie up the loose ends and be ready for the big day on time.

I was frustrated with how things were going, in regards to my fiancés family.

She told him to shut down all requests.

I just told him essentially to shut down any concerns in regards to the wedding.

I don’t want to be asked about making any decisions or changes or anything especially when it’s this close to the wedding.

He thinks I’m being a bit harsh.

She said it’s not up for discussion.

So, AITA for telling this to my fiancé?

“If anyone asks about any changes in regards to the wedding, we don’t have to talk about it. Just tell people no further changes are being made this close to the wedding date. And it’s not up for discussion.”

I don’t think she’s being unreasonable. It’s her wedding.

Let’s read the reactions of other users to this story on Reddit.

This person makes a valid point.

This person shares their personal thoughts.

Here’s another honest opinion from his person.

This user is calling out the groom.

Finally, here’s a similar thought about the husband-to-be.

Your wedding, your way.

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