April 16, 2025 at 8:49 pm

His Plumber Accepted Payment Via PayPal For His Work, But Now They’re Insisting He Get Paid Again Because He Says He Doesn’t Know How PayPal Works

by Ashley Ashbee

Older man on sofa looking at cell phone

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Many older folks have no idea how the internet or apps work. It’s a complete mystery to them. So they may be inclined to demand other options to make life easier for themselves.

However, those requests are not only a cost to you; they can also be scams, and this is common.

Check out this client dealing with his tech-illiterate plumber.

AITAH for not double paying a man who did work on my bathroom?

Yesterday, I had a plumber come to my house to do some repairs.

We agreed on the price, he fixed the problem, and before he left my home, I sent him the full sum over PayPal.

He showed me the text that confirmed he had a payment from me, and then left, so I assumed all was well.

But all was not well.

This afternoon, he’s been texting/calling me non-stop, saying he didn’t receive the payment.

I have the PayPal receipt, but it says he “hasn’t accepted the payment.”

The money was taken out of my account and I have PayPal and my bank both confirming that I did what I was supposed to do and he literally just has to go to PayPal and accept the money.

He’s now claiming that he doesn’t understand how PayPal works, so he can’t claim the money (PayPal says that if he hasn’t claimed the money by 4/25, I will get an automatic refund).

And playing dumb has a price.

He wants me to pay him the full amount again, this time in cash. But I feel like this is a scam.

He could easily take my cash, and then accept the PayPal money, and get paid double what we agreed to.

AITAH for expecting him to figure out how PayPal works or wait until I get my refund and then I’ll give him cash.

I have no problem paying what I owe, but I already did that.

He shouldn’t have agreed to be paid via PayPal if he doesn’t know how PayPal works.

Here is what folks are saying on Reddit.

I wouldn’t even do that.

Screenshot 2025 03 28 at 10.11.53 PM His Plumber Accepted Payment Via PayPal For His Work, But Now Theyre Insisting He Get Paid Again Because He Says He Doesnt Know How PayPal Works

Bleh! Oh well.

Screenshot 2025 03 28 at 10.12.13 PM His Plumber Accepted Payment Via PayPal For His Work, But Now Theyre Insisting He Get Paid Again Because He Says He Doesnt Know How PayPal Works

True, but I bet this is a scam.

Screenshot 2025 03 28 at 10.12.35 PM His Plumber Accepted Payment Via PayPal For His Work, But Now Theyre Insisting He Get Paid Again Because He Says He Doesnt Know How PayPal Works

Good answer. How can he argue with that?

Screenshot 2025 03 28 at 10.12.49 PM His Plumber Accepted Payment Via PayPal For His Work, But Now Theyre Insisting He Get Paid Again Because He Says He Doesnt Know How PayPal Works

I agree, although people do lots of things without learning how they work.

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No referral for you!

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