April 24, 2025 at 4:27 am

Teen Thought Fender Bender Was No Big Deal, But Her Family Soon Learned How Expensive The Consequences Can Be

by Benjamin Cottrell

scraped up front of a car

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Accidents happen, but the real damage often comes after the fact.

After a teen dented an expensive car, insurance couldn’t cover the full bill and the courts stepped in.

Now her family is desperate for a favor, but not everyone thinks they deserve one.

Read on for the full story.

AITA For Refusing to Ask my friend to drop the case he has on my sister?

So, a bit ago, my sister’s 16-year-old daughter hit some dude’s car.

His parked car.

It was a big oopsie that left her in dire straights with her insurance.

She made a dent on the whole left side of the vehicle, and since the car in question is pretty expensive, their insurance limits won’t cover this one.

After my sister’s insurance came in and paid what they could, my friend (the dude) filed a collision claim with his insurance.

Unfortunately, now the case is going to the courts.

Now, his insurance is suing my sister for the rest of the amount.

After all that wrapped up, the judge ordered wage garnishment (it’s legal in our state).

But the mom of the teen is trying everything she can to stop it.

My sister wants me to ask him to, like, drop it, I guess.

I really think this dude is just doing it because he can since he’s a chief at a hospital or something.

Her sibling doesn’t think their niece really deserves any favors.

I told her nah because this one’s kind of on her daughter.

My sister only asked because she thinks she can’t “live” with the amount being taken from her to pay off the remaining balance.

Now she’s furious at them for refusing.

She said I was inconsiderate for not even caring enough to ask, but I guess that’s what doing stupid stuff does.

She’s still mad at me over it, and it was however long ago.

AITA?

Some dents can be buffed out, but this time, the damages cut deep.

What did Reddit think?

This situation is just out of their hands.

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This friend is asking for something that’s just impossible.

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The only thing to do now is try and prevent this from happening again.

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You can’t fight the big, bad insurance company.

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Actions have consequences, and everyone needs to learn that lesson one way or the other.

And sometimes they can be costly.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check this one out about a man who created a points system for his inheritance, and a family friend ends up getting almost all of it.

Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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