April 1, 2025 at 5:21 am

Young Lady Was Asked To Serve Food To Her Sister’s Boyfriend, But She Refused And Said She’s Not A Servant

by Heide Lazaro

Man sitting on the couch, holding a bowl and spoon, and eating

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Having a constant guest in your house can be annoying.

This young lady explained that her sister’s boyfriend is at their house a lot, but he never cooks or puts away his dishes whenever he comes over.

She’s sick of cleaning up after him.

Now, her sister wants her to do another favor for him, and she said no. Should you have said yes?

Read the story below for all the details.

Aita for not serving my sisters bf?

I (17F) was home alone with my little sister (12).

My older sister’s (25) boyfriend (29) was at home, too.

He regularly sleeps over, but this time, my sister was at work.

The boyfriend expects to be served when he comes over.

Ever since he’s been here, not once has he ever made his own plate.

He’s never put his dishes away or anything of the sort.

Now, I understand it the first couple times, but it’s been almost a year now, and he still gets treated like a prince.

This young lady received a text from her older sister.

Anyways, my sister messaged me and asked me to serve him food.

I left her on read, because what the heck do I look like?

Then she called me, and I told her I was in bed.

So she hung up in my face.

She had always cleaned up after him, so she said no.

In case anyone’s wondering, they both come home, eat, and leave their mess everywhere, and it ends in me having to clean up after them.

He’s a grown man.

He’s comfortable enough to go through the fridge or change the TV channel.

She said she’s not a slave.

I’m sure he can handle serving his own food, too, because I’m no one’s slave.

I already have to put up with the mess he leaves behind.

AITA?

She’s right. He really needs to take care of himself and clean up his mess.

Let’s read the reactions of other users to this story on Reddit.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

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While this person gives their honest opinion.

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Here’s another super valid point.

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This person shares some petty but potentially effective advice.

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Finally, you’re not the maid, says this person.

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He has two hands, he can make his own plate.

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