May 19, 2025 at 9:23 pm

An Intoxicated Customer Wouldn’t Stop Flirting With Her, So This Bartender Embarrassed Him By Giving Him A Non-Alcoholic Drink

by Matthew Gilligan

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It’s great to have a neighborhood bar where you can feel comfortable and kick back with the other locals and the bartenders.

But if you wear out your welcome, you’re gonna get the boot in a hurry.

In this story from Reddit, a female bartender explained why she felt like she had to embarrass a guy who was being a bit too pushy.

Check out what happened!

Embarrassing a bar regular.

“I’m (28F) a bartender at a fun cocktail bar that has a lot of regular customers who we see pretty often.

A lot of them are dear friends and tend to behave themselves when they come by.

Uh oh…

This one night as I was on a closing shift, one of these regulars had come in to pay a visit.

He’d clearly been drinking before he arrived and was being pretty obnoxious to start.

I made his regular drink and he began incessantly flirting with me.

Asking if he could kiss me even.

After another drink and me politely declining a handful of times, he asked me for a “surprise drink”.

I turned and reached for a bottle from our fridge and poured a 3-4 oz serving of what looked like red wine.

He sipped, complimented it, and asked what it was.

You’re cut off!

I responded “Oh! This is Verjus Rouge! (A non-alcoholic red wine style bottle, mostly used to add acidity) The surprise is that there’s no alcohol in it.”

A couple people at the bar around us laughed and he was clearly embarrassed.

I gave him one more drink and he left.

Safe to say he doesn’t flirt with me at work anymore.

Here’s what Reddit users had to say about this.

This person had a lot to say.

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Another individual weighed in.

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This Reddit user wasn’t impressed.

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And another person spoke up.

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If you liked that post, check out this post about a rude customer who got exactly what they wanted in their pizza.