Unusual parties are cool and exciting… for people invited.

When a party is going on at your house and you’re not only not invited, but annoyed by the whole idea, well, things can get tense.

See why this woman is less than enthusiastic about her partner’s plans.

AITA for refusing to leave the house?

I live with my partner.

One of his close friends is getting married soon, and he’s the best man.

I’m not particularly close with the couple, I’ve met them a handful of times, so I’m only part of the wedding as my partner’s plus one.

This is all fine by me.

The bachelor and bachelorette parties are happening on the same day.

It’s going to be quite a celebration.

I’m not invited to the bachelorette party – again fine by me – I hardly know the bride and on the times we have met we were cordial but I wouldn’t expect to be invited to her bachelorette party.

As he’s the best man, the bachelor party is planned to take place largely at our house.

They’re starting at one of the other groomsmen’s house before going out then planning to return for a barbecue, video game night/sleeping.

I’m obviously not part of this plan, but as I asked my partner: where am I supposed to go during this?

She didn’t like the answer.

He argued that the other groomsman’s partner isn’t causing this issue, but of course she isn’t; she’s part of the bachelorette party, she’s already out of the house.

I’m being expected to just find something to do with myself out of the house for 24+ hours.

It would make far more sense to use one of the houses that are already empty.

We actually argued about this, and we went around in circles so much I can’t tell anymore if I’m actually the one in the wrong.

Am I?

Here is what people are talking about.

Not a nice person, that’s why.

It’s a red flag.

He was still inconsiderate.

Haha the most expensive one!

That sounds nice. I could use a Jacuzzi soak, myself.

Call me a snob but this sounds like a terrible party.

She’d have way more fun getting a massage.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.