May 19, 2025 at 8:21 pm

Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7-Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

by Ben Auxier

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A couple of months back, I was admitted to the hospital with a very high heart rate and shortness of breath.

It was scary – to say the least.

So scary in fact that even after everything was ok, I still felt shaken up, which is why I understand both sides of this story.

Check it out.

AITAH For NOT cancelling my 7 week backpack trip I paid 3k for to be at home during my father’s medical issue?

It all started on a trip.

Just started my backpacking trip typing this from Rome, my dad in the last couple days had a 125 resting bpm while we were in Italy together.

He is currently at the hospital, I am flying home with him in 2 days because he wants emotional support but I also want to come back to Europe to continue my travels because he is stable and doing okay now (he did not have a heart attack).

But now, the trip is over.

However, he is saying I can’t go back and I need to be here to help him with his work and In case something happens.

I don’t want to forfeit my entire trip for this and given that he is stable and okay I don’t think it’s necessary for me to do that… AITAH??

What’s it all worth right now?

I currently work for him at his company and he wants to take a step back to retire and i will definitely hinder that opportunity if I chose to stay, been in a bad place mentally lately and truly think this trip is beneficial for my well being and experiencing new things.

Going back to a desk job because of this and losing the money does not sound appealing

Let’s see what the comments have to say:

2025 05 01 22 14 27 Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7 Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

Sounds like you’re pretty poor company.

2025 05 01 22 15 32 Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7 Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

Just humor him, maybe.

2025 05 01 22 15 56 Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7 Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

Oof…

2025 05 01 22 16 12 Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7 Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

Looks like this is what this is for:

2025 05 01 22 16 17 Their Dad Went To The Hospital And Is Now Fine, But Insists They Stay Home Instead Of Going On A 7 Week Trip They Paid $3,000 For

Don’t do something you’ll regret.

Either way.

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