In a world where instant communication is the norm, choosing to disconnect can feel like a radical act.

One person gave up their cell phone over a decade ago for the sake of peace, but not everyone respects their choice.

You’ll want to read on for this one!

AITAH for not having a mobile phone?

I’m in my 30s. I gave up my phone 12 years ago.

There were many parts of having a phone they just didn’t like.

I hated having the thing—constantly being forced to charge it, having something binging and popping in my pocket when I’m trying to focus.

I dislike texting; it’s impossible to express nuance or sarcasm, so I ditched it and life has been great.

They still found a way to make sure they were able to be contacted — at least at home.

I have a landline, and you can leave a message if you need me.

But not everyone seems to understand their choice.

Most people I know have been very accepting of this, but some people seem to find it almost offensive.

They probe with, “Well, how can I get hold of you when you’re out of the house?!”

You can’t, is the answer.

You can leave an answerphone message and I’ll get back to you another time.

These people seem incredulous for some reason.

Now they’re wondering if they’re just being unnecessarily difficult?

I realize it’s not exactly common, but AITA?

They’re not asking anyone else to give up their precious phones. So what gives?

Redditors weigh in with their two cents.

This commenter admires this person’s desire to go off the grid and they think their friends should understand too.

Their friends will simply just have to adapt to a new reality.

This user agrees that not being so tied to your cell phone is often a good thing.

Not subscribing to phone culture does throw some people for a loop.

Living without a phone may seem strange for some, but to this person, it’s freeing.

They’ve made peace that not everyone will understand their decision.

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