September 28, 2025 at 5:24 pm

Inconsiderate Gym-Goer Chose To Blast His Music For The Whole Gym To Hear, But Then He Threw A Tantrum When Someone Called Him Out For It

by Benjamin Cottrell

man working out at the gym

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Gyms are supposed to be places where everyone can focus on their own routine.

But one inconsiderate gym-goer‘s choice to blast his music without earbuds ended up sparking a heated exchange with one man who just wanted to finish his workout in peace.

Read on for the full story!

AITA Guy without earbud blasts music throughout free weight area

Guy in the free weight area of a suburban gym was loudly playing music without earbuds.

So someone finally spoke up.

I said, “Did you leave your earbuds at home?”

He replied, “I never use them.”

Well he should, explains the fellow gym-goer.

I said, “People wear them so they keep their music to themselves.”

He replied, “I don’t give a ****.”

I replied, “I can see that.”

This just makes the guy even madder.

He replied, “You’re a jerk for saying anything.”

AITA for suggesting to this guy that he was blasting music and should use earbuds?

Everyone knows going headphone-free at a crowded gym is just bad etiquette no matter how you slice it.

Did redditors agree?

It’s time to escalate this issue as far up as it’ll go.

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Why not have a staff member out on the gym floor to help mitigate these issues as they arise?

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In other gyms, this behavior just wouldn’t fly.

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If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em!

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The paid staff members really should have been the ones to address this.

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It’s really not hard to show respect in a shared space, but this dude chose to make things more difficult than they needed to be.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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