If you were planning a girls day with a friend, would you be upset if the friend changed the dynamics of the day by bringing her boyfriend along?

In this story, one woman finds herself in this situation, and now, she’s not excited about hanging out with her friend at all.

She’s wondering if it was wrong to suggest changing the plans.

Let’s read the whole story.

AITA for changing plans when my friend wanna bring her bf to our girls hangout?

Background: Me and old colleague (both F) are pretty close and we hang out once in a while (like every half year) .

Last week we figured its time to meet again, so we made plans for this sunday to have lunch and shopping.

She got some discount vouchers and we’ve both been excited about this girls day doing girls stuff – or i guess just me.

Three’s a crowd.

Tonight she suddenly asked if her boyfriend could join…said she wanted bf to help “check out her items”.

I personally don’t like it when someone suddenly decide to bring their other half to a planned date. also not comfortable shopping with someone else’s bf – like making him wait around, showing a guy my try ons.

But out of politeness i felt i couldn’t say no.

She suggested changing the plans.

This is where i could be TA – I told her how about we’ll have lunch, but i’ll skip shopping because I dont have much I wanna buy.

And now she isnt replying my messages so i feel she may be mad.

But to be honest my mood for this meet up is also ruined, I just wanted to have a quick lunch and leave.

AITA for cancelling shopping?

If her friend wants to shop with her boyfriend, she still can.

Let’s see how Reddit reacted to this story.

Talking it out would be the better way to handle this.

It would’ve been easy to refuse to add the boyfriend to the outing.

This person thinks both friends are being childish.

Another person is on OP’s side.

This girls day isn’t going to happen.

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