November 24, 2025 at 8:47 pm

Engineer Was Pressured By His Manager To Drive His Coworker To Work, So The Engineer Gave Him A Wild Ride He’d Never Forget

by Benjamin Cottrell

fast car driving down the road

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Sometimes the best lessons come wrapped in exhaust fumes and rock music.

After being pressured by his manager to “be a team player,” and drive his coworker to work, one engineer came up with a plan to make him never want to drive with him again.

Read on for the full story!

You demand to carpool in my car? Buckle up, cupcake!

I was working for a business as a principal firmware engineer.

The commute was an hour each way on the best days.

There were perks to driving electric.

I leased an EV which would barely get me there and home, but it was carpool-lane qualified.

A new coworker lived nearby and proposed that we carpool so we could use the carpool lane and save him maybe 20 minutes.

I wasn’t about to ride with him in his car due to his poor vision and lack of situational awareness.

So when his coworker asks, he had a quick answer.

He asked if he could ride with me in my EV.

I declined, as I didn’t need him to use the carpool lane, and his added extra bulk might exceed the limited range of that early EV.

He complained to our manager, who demanded that I accommodate him.

His manager tried to pressure them.

“Be a team player for once, don’t you know?”

So, I decided to offer carpooling with him in my pumped-up restomod ’71 Datsun 240Z on a Friday morning.

His coworker soon came to regret ever asking.

Turns out, he didn’t like the volume of my music—or the velocity of my car.

He ended up taking an Uber home that evening and never bugged me about carpooling again.

Yay team!

Not everyone is meant to be a team player, it turns out.

What did Reddit think?

This seems like a massive overstep on the manager’s part.

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If the manager really insisted, then he should have paid up.

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What an employee does before work should be none of the manager’s concern.

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Why couldn’t the manager have just done it himself?

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Nothing like a little horsepower to drive the point home.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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