February 15, 2026 at 1:48 pm

New Hire Purchased A Job-Appropriate Gift For A Secret Santa, But Her Coworker’s Ungrateful Response Ruined The Friendly Office Dynamic

by Benjamin Cottrell

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Workplace traditions are supposed to build goodwill, not breed resentment.

One new hire thought she’d knocked it out of the park with a Secret Santa gift for her colleague.

But her colleague’s ungrateful reaction quickly soured the whole thing.

Keep reading for the full story.

Secret Santa

I’ve been at my new job a few months, and for Secret Santa, I got one of the women who trained me.

During orientation, everyone filled out a sheet of their favorite things in case anyone wanted to get them a gift, so I went off that.

She tried to stay as close to what her coworker wanted as possible.

Hers said she liked fuzzy socks and the color lemon green. I also noticed she always had her nails done, so I slyly asked where she gets them done.

We had a $25 budget, so I got her a $25 gift card to her preferred salon. I also bought her fuzzy socks in her favorite color.

But her coworker wasn’t grateful at all.

After she received her gift, I asked her if she liked it, and she said no.

At this point, she had no idea that I was the one who bought it.

She made no effort in even pretending she was impressed by the gift.

I asked why, and she said, “Who buys someone socks as a gift?” I asked if she had seen the gift card in the bag, so she checked the bag again.

She didn’t seem embarrassed at all about saying it was a bad gift—just asked how much was on the card.

The coworker continues to make things awkward.

I then asked again if she liked it, and she half-heartedly said yes before asking again why I bought her socks.

I said she put it on her gift paper during orientation, and all she said was, “Oh, okay.”

This permanently changed how she saw this coworker from that point on.

I was annoyed at this point, so I ended the conversation.

I really liked this girl, but the whole situation left a bad taste in my mouth.

The socks weren’t the real problem here — the attitude was.

What did Reddit think?

This commenter would love getting a gift like this.

Screenshot 2026 01 15 at 8.27.04 PM New Hire Purchased A Job Appropriate Gift For A Secret Santa, But Her Coworker’s Ungrateful Response Ruined The Friendly Office Dynamic

When getting a gift for a coworker, there’s only so much you can do.

Screenshot 2026 01 15 at 8.27.36 PM New Hire Purchased A Job Appropriate Gift For A Secret Santa, But Her Coworker’s Ungrateful Response Ruined The Friendly Office Dynamic

Maybe it’s time to sit next year’s gift exchange out.

Screenshot 2026 01 15 at 8.28.01 PM New Hire Purchased A Job Appropriate Gift For A Secret Santa, But Her Coworker’s Ungrateful Response Ruined The Friendly Office Dynamic

What this lady should have done is at least pretend to be grateful.

Screenshot 2026 01 15 at 8.28.35 PM New Hire Purchased A Job Appropriate Gift For A Secret Santa, But Her Coworker’s Ungrateful Response Ruined The Friendly Office Dynamic

Gratitude costs nothing, but somehow this coworker still couldn’t afford it.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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