August 7, 2024 at 3:15 pm

Her Boyfriend’s Sister Asked Her To Take Maternity Photos But Kept Cancelling The Shoots, So She Paid Her For Her Wasted Time. Now Her Mom Is Furious That She Had To Pay For Photos That Were Never Taken.

by Ashley Ashbee

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Time really is money and for a lot of people who aren’t in business, this concept is strange and confusing.

Like in this story about a relative who is a photographer.

See the drama she faced from family because they just didn’t understand why she would accept money.

AITA for Accepting Compensation After My Boyfriend’s Sister Kept Canceling Her Maternity Photoshoot

My boyfriend’s pregnant sister asked me to take maternity photos and I agreed.

She didn’t offer to pay, which was fine with me since she’s family.

However, she ended up canceling the sessions last minute four times in a row.

The bride-to-be’s actions start affecting OP’s business.

I could have booked other paying clients during those times, so this was frustrating.

After she canceled again yesterday, I asked my boyfriend to talk to her.

He sent her a message asking if she had canceled again, and she apologized, asking for my account details to compensate me.

Then it became a bigger family affair.

Shortly after he gave her my account, his mom started texting him, calling me a jerk for supposedly charging for photos I didn’t even take, and saying that family shouldn’t charge each other.

For context, a few weeks ago, I asked her husband for a couple of plastic bags he sells, and he charged me for them without hesitation.

This made me feel like there was a double standard in how they view family obligations.

Here’s what people are saying.

It disgusts me, to be honest. But I always say that the cheapest clients and the ones who want free stuff, are always the most difficult. So just don’t do it.

Source: Reddit/AITA

I love this solution!

Source: Reddit/AITA

It’s sad how much people devalue photography. I’m not sure how what could change that perception.

Source: Reddit/AITA

This is a key point, but I doubt they’ll lay off.

Source: Reddit/AITA

What a toxic family.

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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