September 5, 2024 at 9:22 am

When His Girlfriend Moved In With Him, Her Mother Moved In As Well And She Don’t Contribute. Now He Wants To Kick Her Out But Worries His Girlfriend Will Leave Too.

by Michael Levanduski

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When you move in with your girlfriend, you expect that some things will have to change in your day-to-day life.

What if in addition to your girlfriend moving in, her mother tagged along as well?

It is a weird situation, but that is what the guy in this story is wondering how to handle.

Check it out.

WIBTA if I kicked my girlfriend’s mother out of my house?

I (m27) and my gf (f24) live together, however with that, her mother (f57) lives with us.

That would be awkward.

Essentially her mom was evicted from their apartment a few days after my girlfriend moved in with me, since then it has been utter hell.

Essentially the mom does a few chores but does not work, has not applied for jobs, or anything, so she is essentially a leech.

Couple red flags already.

And my gf has been kinda the same, she has a few jobs but doesn’t do any chores or anything really.

I provide for everything and everyone and pay all the bills and for dinners/outings etc.

Time to let them go.

I feel I would be the AH here because she would be homeless and on the street and my girl is considering going with her if that happens

But I also have no qualms on ending the relationship if she did choose to move out also.

WIBTA?

It sounds like a bad relationship even beyond the issue with the mom.

Let’s see what the people in the comments think about it.

They seem to be leeches.

Source: Reddit/AITA

Oh, there will be drama.

Source: Reddit/AITA

She is giving him a sneak preview.

Source: Reddit/AITA

Yes! RUN!

Source: Reddit/AITA

There isn’t much hope for the relationship.

Source: Reddit/AITA

He needs to get rid of both mother and daughter, today!

This can’t end up anywhere good, at least not for him.

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Senior Contributing Editor, Workplace & Community

Michael Levanduski is a veteran journalist and digital culture specialist with over 15 years of professional writing and research experience. While his background spans emerging technology and complex technical subjects, Michael specializes in analyzing workplace ethics, property disputes, and viral interpersonal dynamics across modern digital forums.

Since joining TwistedSifter in 2024, Michael has authored some of the publication’s most widely read coverage on corporate policy, malicious compliance, and neighborhood relations. Rather than simply aggregating online debates, he brings rigorous research, organizational context, and an empathetic editorial voice to everyday human dilemmas—transforming raw forum discussions into insightful, highly engaging narratives.

When he isn’t covering internet culture, Michael enjoys traveling, keeping up with tech trends, and spending time with his family. Connect with Michael on LinkedIn and Facebook.