It’s always a drag when you go out of your way to be nice to someone…

And it totally backfires!

And it’s even worse if that person happens to be a neighbor who you have a hard time avoiding.

That’s what the woman who wrote this story is currently dealing with and she shared her thoughts about this frustrating situation.

Read on and get all the details below.

Crazy cat lady neighbor is stalking us.

“When we first moved into the apartment complex we live in, I noticed an elderly lady feeding stray cats in the common garden. I struck up a conversation and I ended up giving her my phone number and name to be helpful to her.

I offered to contact a foster agency for the cats in the community garden and see if they can help.

Long story short, they let me know a few weeks later that they’re currently too busy with foster animals to accept the 6 strays (1 male 1 female and 4 kittens).

This is what you get for trying to help someone…

During the time I waited for the reply, the lady kept asking me and my boyfriend about it every day, no matter if we were going somewhere – it was like an unskippable cut scene but we were still kind to her since we wanted to help.

She crossed the line when she accused us of not caring about her or the cats when we were away for the weekend (because she saw our car wasn’t there).

Spoiler alert: we had to leave town for a funeral and I told her that which she returned with : “You don’t care about me or the cats”.

And yet I kept being kind to her.

Time to cut ties with this lady!

But she’s been non-stop harassing me and my boyfriend about this even though we told her multiple times that we can’t help her and our landlord doesn’t allow animals.

I sent her a message to draw a boundary, still respectful and regretful that I couldn’t help but she went crazy on me anyways.

I feel so unsafe now.

What should we do?”

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And another individual didn’t hold back.

Ugh, this is getting weird…

And pretty creepy!

She needs to keep this woman as far away as possible.

It’s a real bummer when you try to be nice to someone and it backfires on you…