One Aunt Drew A Firm Line On Free Babysitting After Her Sister Was Cruel To Her Dog, And The Decision Quickly Created Tension
Justice for Benny!
Justice for Benny!
Helping your parents is one thing, but being treated like the default parent every time they don’t want to be isn’t a fair expectation.
At some point, “helping out” stops being support and starts feeling like covering for parents who refuse to face reality.
Childcare is her job, not her rent payment.
Kids’ development first, grandma’s feelings later.
Boundaries tend to upset people who benefit from ignoring them.
When “help your sister” turns into “sacrifice your sanity,” boundaries beat babysitting.
French fries come and go, but a parent’s right to set the rules should always stay on the menu.
Helping family is generous.
When trust is off the table, so is the babysitting.
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