Opposites definitely attract…but that doesn’t mean that it’s always a good idea to get married to someone who is so different from you.

And it sounds like this woman and her husband are going through some trials and tribulations.

Did she take things too far when she called him a name?

Read her story and see what you think.

AITA for calling my husband a snob?

“I grew up very working class so I find it easier to relate to people who also grew up working class.

My husband doesn’t get it because he’s grown up in an upper class family and all of his friends are from a similar socioeconomic background as his.

Until last year I only really socialized with his friends or mutual friends we made during university but I’ve always felt like the odd one out because I can’t relate to a lot of their life experiences.

She decided to look up some old friends.

So last year I made the decision to try to reconnect with two of my best friends from secondary school.

They’ve both met my husband and I could tell from the beginning that he didn’t like either of them but he didn’t outright say it at the time.

Since then he’s made small comments about both of them that has made it abundantly clear that he doesn’t like them so I don’t invite him when I spend time with them anymore.

We usually go on holiday with a group of his friends and I invited both of my friends to come too this year.

They both want to come but one friend isn’t able to afford it so I offered to pay for her.

He didn’t hold back.

I mentioned inviting them to my husband and he already had an issue before I even mentioned the fact that I offered to pay for one of my friends.

He thinks I shouldn’t have invited them because they won’t “fit in”, when I asked him why he claimed they’re vulgar and foul mouthed.

One of my friends does have a dirty sense of humor but it’s not like that’s her entire personality and she knows the right time and audience for those types of jokes.

He also has a friend who swears every other word and he’s invited so my husband doesn’t have a leg to stand on.

When I mentioned I was going to pay for one friend he tried to use that as evidence that they’re just using me which isn’t true.

Things got ugly.

We had a heated argument over this because he wanted me to uninvite them and during the argument I asked him if he thought they were below him and his friends which he didn’t respond to so I told him he was acting like a snob.

He was offended and said he wasn’t a snob and if he was, he wouldn’t have married me, which really hurt my feelings.

He’s changed his mind about me uninviting my friends but I can tell he’s still angry at me and if I’m being honest, part of me is still angry at him for what he said.

So who’s the ******* here?”

Check out what folks said about this on Reddit.

This person said they all SUCK.

Another individual said she’s an *******.

This reader shared their thoughts.

Another individual chimed in.

And this person had a lot to say.

Those are fightin’ words!

What was she thinking?

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