Navigating arguments with a furious girlfriend is tricky.

This man explains that he had an argument with his girlfriend and wanted some space to think things through on his own.

His girlfriend refused to give him that space, and he’s not sure if he reacted to her the right way.

Read the story below for all the details.

AITA for not allowing my partner through my building’s receptionist after she came to talk about an argument I didn’t want to deal with?

My partner and I got into an argument earlier in the day.

She was upset with me because I had gone out with friends the night before and I didn’t text her much while I was out.

This man asked his girlfriend for some space after an argument.

She felt like I was ignoring her.

While I felt like I was just enjoying my time before college started, and I didn’t think constant updates were necessary.

The conversation got a bit heated, and I told her I needed space to process things before continuing the discussion.

His building’s security would not let her through.

A few hours later, she showed up at my home.

She was insisting on talking in person.

My building has a receptionist/security desk that screens visitors.

They called me to ask if they should let her up.

He told the receptionist not to let her in.

I told them no because I still wasn’t in the right mood to have the conversation, and I felt like she was ignoring my request for space.

She ended up leaving but later texted me, really upset.

She felt humiliated.

She said that shutting her out like that was cruel and humiliating because the receptionist had to tell her she wasn’t allowed up.

She thinks I was being dismissive and childish by refusing to even see her.

While I feel like I was just enforcing the boundary I had already set.

She should’ve given him the space he needed. Showing up at his building was the wrong move.

Let’s check out the comments of other people on Reddit.

This person thinks it’s a pretty huge rift.

This person shares their honest opinion.

Here’s a similar thought from this user.

That’s on her, says this person.

Finally, this user describes her as inappropriate and creepy.

You can’t just show up unannounced at someone’s home.

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