April 9, 2025 at 4:22 pm

She Woke Her Boyfriend Up To Go To The Gym, And Now He’s Accusing Her Of Waking Him Up Aggressively

by Matthew Gilligan

woman waking up a man in bed

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This is just my humble opinion, but if you’re having major problems with your partner and you’re really young, it’s probably not gonna work out in the long run.

It sounds like that’s what’s going on in this story from Reddit, and the woman who wrote it wants to know if she’s treating her boyfriend badly.

Read on to get all the details below…

WIBTA for waking my boyfriend up early for the gym?

“Hi, I’m 20/F, and I’ve been with my boyfriend 21/M for almost 2 years.

We’ve been living together for 6 months, and this is my first relationship.

Normally, we don’t have conflicts, but something happened this week that’s been bothering me. On Tuesday there was a conflict that I can’t understand.

They usually go to the gym together in the morning.

We go to gym together at the university on Tuesdays at 8 am.

I got up at 6 to hurry up and prepare breakfast for both of us, while he slept until 7 and when he got up I asked him to get up a little earlier because we might be late.

After that, he almost stopped talking to me, refused to eat breakfast and didn’t talk to me all day.

His strange behavior continued.

I asked many times during the day if I had offended him in something and if everything was okay, but he replied that everything was fine.

Yesterday the same situation continued and he didn’t talk to me.

In the evening I decided to go to a cafe by myself.

He only asked me where I was after an hour of my absence and came to me.

This guy sounds a little whacko.

I asked him again what happened and he said that on Tuesday I “woke him up too aggressively”, which offended him for the whole day, despite the fact that I asked him to get up in a normal tone.

He started saying that I was to blame for everything.

I couldn’t stand it and burst into tears.

When we were walking home, he walked at a distance from me, as if he wasn’t walking with me, and at home he silently sat down to watch TikTok while I continued to cry.

After this situation he continues to ignore me. I am thinking to ignore him as he does to me.”

What is his problem?

Here’s what folks had to say on Reddit.

This person shared his thoughts.

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Another reader said she didn’t do anything wrong.

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Another reader chimed in.

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This Reddit user spoke up.

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And this individual weighed in.

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I think it might be time that she gets rid of this fella…

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