April 26, 2025 at 11:35 pm

They Cared For A Cat For 8 Months, And Then A Suspicious “Owner” Showed Up At Their Door. So They Refused To Give The Cat Back.

by Ben Auxier

person petting a cat outdoors

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As I type this, one of my kittens, a dark grey shorthair named Smoke, is snuggled up next to me on my desk.

I’ve only had her and her brother around for about 5 months and I would literally fight anyone who came between us.

So this story has got me all riled up.

AITA for refusing to give back the stray cat I’ve been caring for after the “owner” showed up 8 months later?

Six months ago during one of the worst winter storms our area has seen, I found a skinny orange tabby cat huddled under my porch, shivering and clearly starving.

I’m not even a “cat person” (always had dogs), but I couldn’t leave him out there to freeze.

I brought him inside, dried him off, and gave him some tuna from my pantry which he devoured instantly.

Bless you, you’re doing the Lord’s work.

The poor thing was in rough shape – matted fur, ear mites, and so thin I could feel every rib.

No collar, no microchip (I checked at a vet the next day).

I posted “found cat” notices online and around the neighborhood, but nobody claimed him.

The vet estimated he was about 2 years old and had been on his own for quite a while based on his condition.

At least he’s safe now.

I named him Rusty and gradually nursed him back to health.

At first, I told myself it was temporary until I found his owners or a good home.

But Rusty turned out to be the sweetest cat imaginable.

He follows me everywhere, sleeps curled against my neck every night, and greets me at the door with happy chirps when I come home.

He’s transformed from a terrified, sickly stray into a healthy, playful companion who’s honestly helped my mental health during a really tough year.

Dat’s a good boy, Rusty.

Fast forward to yesterday.

A woman knocked on my door saying she saw Rusty in my window and that he’s actually her cat “Pumpkin” who ran away 8 months ago when she moved to a new apartment across town.

She had no photos of him on her phone (said they were on an old phone), no vet records (claimed she took him to a clinic that closed), and nothing to prove ownership except her description of a “friendly orange tabby.”

She said she’s been “looking everywhere” but didn’t explain how she went 8 months without finding him despite my posts online.

A little bit suspicious in multiple ways.

I politely but firmly told her that after 8 months of no one claiming him, extensive veterinary care (over $800 for vaccinations, neutering, dental work, etc.), and the bond we’ve formed, Rusty is now my cat.

I said I sympathized with her loss but couldn’t give him up.

She became increasingly upset, eventually crying and saying I was “stealing her baby.”

Before leaving, she threatened to return with police.

So, who has rightful ownership?

I feel terrible about her distress, but everything in me says she either isn’t Rusty’s original owner or was a neglectful one (given his condition when I found him).

Rusty showed no recognition of her at all and actually hid behind my legs during the confrontation.

I can’t imagine giving him to someone who let him end up alone and half-starved in a blizzard, especially with zero proof of ownership.

AITA for refusing to give Rusty back?

Let’s see what the comments make of this:

2025 04 08 17 09 49 They Cared For A Cat For 8 Months, And Then A Suspicious Owner Showed Up At Their Door. So They Refused To Give The Cat Back.

Who the heck doesn’t have pictures of their kitty?

2025 04 08 17 10 11 They Cared For A Cat For 8 Months, And Then A Suspicious Owner Showed Up At Their Door. So They Refused To Give The Cat Back.

Safety is what matters most.

2025 04 08 17 11 23 They Cared For A Cat For 8 Months, And Then A Suspicious Owner Showed Up At Their Door. So They Refused To Give The Cat Back.

You better recognize.

2025 04 08 17 11 43 They Cared For A Cat For 8 Months, And Then A Suspicious Owner Showed Up At Their Door. So They Refused To Give The Cat Back.

Here’s to many happy years, Rusty.

In your new home, of course.

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