Some people can be too quick to diagnose someone’s challenges.

Do you think it’s asking too much to expect your significant other to put their dirty dishes in the dishwasher?

This man’s girlfriend does!

He admits to following a routine to get over his anxiety, but the only thing he asks his girlfriend to do is put her dishes in the dishwasher.

This led to a fight.

Read the full story below for all the details..

AITAH for kicking my gf out for diagnosing me?

I (36M) have been dating Mandy (34F) for six months.

My place is closer to her work, so she sleeps over a few nights a week and has a key.

She also finishes work earlier than I do, so she usually gets to my place before me.

This man maintains his routine to help with his anxiety.

I have anxiety and see a therapist once a month.

I manage it by maintaining routines and schedules.

For example, when I get home, I feed my cat first, then wash my hands.

I then start cooking, and clean up after.

I don’t expect her to do anything around my house.

He asked her to put her dishes in the dishwasher after she used them.

But I do expect her to at least put her dirty dishes in the dishwasher.

When I explained this to her, she asked, “Are you autistic?”

I said I didn’t think so, and added that this is just basic courtesy. Even if I was autistic, I’d still expect the same.

She kept leaving her dirty dishes out.

But she kept doing it.

I came home again to dirty dishes all over.

She uses bowls for snacks and cups for drinks.

I asked her why she didn’t put them in the dishwasher.

She called him autistic again for following his routine.

She replied, “There’s that ’tism again! You really need to get tested.”

Last night, when I got home, she asked me to grab her a can of Coke.

I said I’d do it after I fed my cat.

She yelled, “You autistic freak! You can’t even break your routine for a can of Coke! How long are you gonna be in denial? Just get tested!”

So, he kicked her out.

I told her to leave!

Whether I’m autistic or not is none of her business.

She got mad and left.

Later, she sent me a bunch of TikToks about autism, saying she was just trying to help.

Was I the jerk? I don’t like my house being dirty!

He needs to break up with her. She is messy, lazy and rude.

Let’s read the reactions of other users to this story on Reddit.

Short and simple.

Dump her, says this person.

This person shares a valid point.

This user gives their honest opinion.

Finally, people are calling her out.

TikTok doesn’t make you an expert.

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