Dirty secrets can ruin even the strongest relationships.

If your wife told you that she was visiting a male coworkers home to check on his dogs while he’s out of town, would you believe her, or would you be very suspicious that she might be lying to you?

This man was blindsided by something he discovered about his wife.

For him, it wasn’t just the messages or the unexpected visits, but the lack of transparency that hurt most.

Now, he’s left with questions that bother him constantly.

Read the full story below to see if he’s right to be concerned.

AITA for Suddenly Not Trusting My Wife of 10 Years?!

I (42M) recently discoverd and confirmed this directly with my wife (42F).

That she has been communicating with a single co-worker (M about 40) from a completely different and unrelated division.

So, they’re not discussing “shop.”

They were talking for at least 2 hours every day on Teams messenger.

This man’s wife has been going to her coworker’s house to feed his dogs.

This co-worker lives in our city, but over 30 minutes away.

However, despite an already busy schedule, my wife also has repeatedly been inside of his home to “help out with the dogs” when he’s supposed to be out of town.

Lastly, they are connected on Snapchat, which my wife already had installed on her phone from communicating with her much younger sister.

So he’s confused and concerned about several things.

The points I struggling the most with are:

What single man wants to spend 2 hours a day talking with a married woman with kids?

Why do they need to be connected on Snapchat?

Why hadn’t she mentioned that she’s taking time out of her day to travel accross town to take care of someone else’s dogs?

Obviosuly, just feeling disrepected.

It doesn’t add up. He’s right not to trust her.

Let’s find out what others have to say about this on Reddit.

This person thinks his wife is cheating.

Here’s a similar thought from this person.

Another valid point from this user.

You already know what’s going down, says this person.

Finally, this person advises getting a lawyer.

Sometimes, the answer to all your questions is right in front of you!

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