It’s been said it’s important to love your neighbors, but some people make it harder than others.

Property law and who owns the right to what can be tricky, but how far would you go to make your new home feel completely yours?

One man recently encountered this dilemma. Here’s how it went down.

AITA For Removing MY Fence That my Neighbor has Been Relying on For 40 Years?

Okay let me give you the lay of the land.

This ought to be good.

We recently moved in (2 months or so) and share an alley way with my neighbor, it leads to both of our backyards. The chain link fence that divides the property is on my property and his front gate is attached to this fence; without said fence his front gate would be useless and floating. The alley is 5.5ft wide, his side is 3.2ft of it (3inch is the property line).

My property line is 2ft from the house, the fence post sit at 22-23inchs away from the house.

His back yard is in the shape of an L, encompassing both mine and the second neighbors backyard. So you cannot enter my backyard without first climbing into his, or perhaps parachuting down from the sky. His backyard and mine are completely fenced off as well.

Definitely doesn’t sound like the ideal setup.

Given that I only have 2ft of space in the alley, I gave him notice that I will be removing the rusted chain linked fence that divided the alley to allow for more walking clearance, leaving my backyard fencing up of course.

Since removing this part i’ve put up two new gates, one that mirrors his front gate and one before you enter my main backyard enclosing it completely.

The front gate was purely out of courtesy because without it anyone could just talk around his floating gate and into his backyard.

Sounds reasonable, no?

Now the issue. This man has gotten his lawyer involved, literally watching me from his window whenever im doing yard work.

He doesn’t have a leg to stand on but I dont think he cares much, the only solution he wants is for me to re-build the exact chain link fence on my side.

Won’t even have a discussion of a second gate or fence on his side; the fence was there when he moved in and he thinks it MUST remain there.

I do not plan to build a fence or to cave to his demands, makes no sense to me. AITA to think this?

Oof. Definitely takes the “sweet” out of “Home Sweet Home”. Let’s see what the Reddit community thinks.

Some users fluent in legalese expressed concern.

Some brought some very valid questions to the table.

Others were just seemingly very confused by the logistics of the layout.

Then of course, there’s always someone who brings up generational warfare.

But ultimately, a lot of folks agreed that sometimes the best answers are the simplest ones.

Sounds like a neighborhood potluck is out of the question.

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