September 6, 2025 at 4:15 am

Husband Agrees To Let Friends Spend The Night At Their House In Their Bed, But His Wife Is Not Okay With This

by Laura Ornella

couple arguing in their bedroom

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Every household operates differently. Is this one unusual?

Where do you draw the line when it comes to houseguests? For this couple, they have very different comfort levels when it comes to this issue.

Read how one Redditor wonders is she’s wrong for setting a firm boundary or if her husband is wrong for not thinking this boundary is important.

See the story below for more information.

AITA for telling my husband’s friends they can’t stay at our condo while we’re out of town?

My husband’s married friends (who I’ve never met) asked if they could use our condo while we’re away.

We live in a one-bedroom, which means they would be sleeping in our bed.

And the kicker? The husband decided for them both.

The part that really upset me is that my husband didn’t even ask me before telling them it was fine. I only found out after the fact.

I told him absolutely not because I’m really uncomfortable with strangers (or honestly, anyone) using such a private intimate space.

His response is shocking…

He brushed it off and said, “I’ll change the sheets,” but that doesn’t erase the fact that other people would intimate in our bed.

If we had a guest room it would be different, but in a one-bedroom it feels way too personal.

But the husband doesn’t seem to understand the problem here.

He doesn’t understand why I think it’s weird and is now upset that I said no.

AITA for holding this boundary?

Where does Reddit stand on this divisive issue? Should this woman just get over it and let them stay? Let’s see what people are saying in the comments below.

People sided with the OP.

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They also thought it was unhygienic.

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One commenter pointed out this is a home not a hotel.

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And finally, one Redditor said the husband should cough up some money for a hotel room instead.

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This husband is acting like a frat boy. He needs to grow up.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.