December 21, 2025 at 12:20 am

Husband Is Tired And Falls Asleep With His Phone On Silent, But His Wife Is Locked Out When She Gets Home From Work

by Jayne Elliott

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Imagine coming home from work late at night and expecting your spouse to unlock the door for you since you didn’t bring a house key with you. What would you do if your spouse didn’t answer the door or their phone?

In this story, one woman finds herself in this situation, and she’s pretty upset about it. However, her husband isn’t sure if it’s really his fault or not.

Let’s read the whole story.

AITA for falling asleep and my wife not being able to enter our house?

My wife works shifts till late at night. Usually she comes home between 11:30 pm and 12:00 pm.

She didn’t bring a house key with her, which I already expected.

I send her chat message about it to make sure, but before she even answered I already fell asleep together with our 1 year old.

He was really tired.

This particular day I was extremely exhausted.

I had only slept 6 hours per night or less for the 3 nights before.

Apparently, she came home but I didn’t wake up from the door bell (isn’t very loud anyway) and my phone was on silent mode.

He points out that there was still a way for her to get in the house.

Though, she couldn’t enter via the front door, the back door was unlocked. So if she wanted she could have climbed the fence and enter the house via our backyard.

But instead she went back to her work (hotel) to sleep there and blames me severely.

So my question is: AITA based on this situation?

Hopping a fence to get in your own home isn’t ideal. Why didn’t she bring a key with her to work?

I’d be upset if I were in his wife’s situation, but I always bring a key with me, so I wouldn’t be in that situation.

Let’s see what Reddit thinks about this story.

This person thinks he really messed up, but there’s also an easy solution.

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Another person thinks they’re both to blame.

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When you put it that way, they both really look bad.

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Yeah, I wouldn’t climb the fence either.

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Bringing a house key to work is not that hard!

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.

Jayne Elliott | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Jayne Elliott is a contributing writer and editor for TwistedSifter specializing in human interest stories, internet culture, and family dynamics. With over 12 years of editorial experience in digital publishing, Jayne excels at analyzing complex online communities and transforming viral social debates into thoughtful, highly engaging narratives.

Rather than simply aggregating internet drama, Jayne brings a sharp, empathetic editorial eye to everyday dilemmas. She has a unique talent for unpacking the nuances of pop culture and online conflicts, providing readers with relatable, well-researched commentary.

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