January 9, 2026 at 9:35 pm

Employee Gets A Condescending Response After She Sends A Change Info Request, So She Sends It To Her Supervisors And Things Change Quick

by Ashley Ashbee

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It’s remarkable how brazenly rude some people are to the people who have the power to make them look extremely bad.

But when they literally ask you to do it for them? Of course you need to oblige. See how the person in this story did exactly that.

“Pls reach out to your supervisor for additional training” say no more

I’ve worked for this health insurance for almost 4 years and I’m, not to toot my own horn, good at my job.

I make sure updated info that members make get routed to where they need to go if they need an override.

Someone needed to override their primary care doctor so I sent the request to the queue that I’ve always sent it to.

But it wasn’t business as usual this time after all.

This morning I find the request gets routed back to me.

Every time a request gets routed, you have to leave a note or a request summary and it shows the interaction in the account for anyone in the company to see.

The note that was left for me said “THIS REQUEST IS INVALID. THIS QUEUE IS ONLY FOR ‘X’ MEMBERS. PLEASE REACH OUT TO YOUR SUPERVISOR FOR ADDITIONAL TRAINING. THANK YOU.”

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The audacity to notate an account like that is just unprofessional. How can you be so loud and yet so wrong.

Then a lightbulb went off. A very satisfying lightbulb.

When I look his name up in my work Skype I find that he’s a Supervisor himself.

I responded with quotes from the workflow the call center has explaining the queue is for ALL members and asked if it should be updated.

So I then send an email to both of my supervisors and I CC him as well since it was his suggestion.

I attach the link to the workflow and I take screen shots of the title of the workbasket thats says ALL MEMBERS and added a screen shot of the exact queue I sent it to.

I explained what I did and the response I got was from a supervisor so I’m just following orders.

I then get the response back “Hello, yes this is my fault. I was under the impression I was working a different queue. My apologies!”

Something about the apology just made me laugh so hard.

Shortly after I get an instant message from my supervisor saying “APOLOGY NOT ACCEPTED.”

Here is what people are talking about.

I agree! You need that kind of support.

Screenshot 2025 11 16 at 12.48.08 AM Employee Gets A Condescending Response After She Sends A Change Info Request, So She Sends It To Her Supervisors And Things Change Quick

Haha that would be a good answer.

Screenshot 2025 11 16 at 12.49.16 AM Employee Gets A Condescending Response After She Sends A Change Info Request, So She Sends It To Her Supervisors And Things Change Quick

Good point. Not sure why this person is like this.

Screenshot 2025 11 16 at 12.49.52 AM Employee Gets A Condescending Response After She Sends A Change Info Request, So She Sends It To Her Supervisors And Things Change Quick

I smiled, too! Maybe she’ll rethink being such a jerk.

Screenshot 2025 11 16 at 1.03.01 AM Employee Gets A Condescending Response After She Sends A Change Info Request, So She Sends It To Her Supervisors And Things Change Quick

Sounds like a rough job.

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