January 10, 2026 at 1:55 pm

Hungry Passenger Ate Her Preordered Vegetarian Meal On A Flight, But Her Seatmate Accused Her Of Being Rude For Not Waiting

by Heather Hall

Flight attendants working their way through the plane, serving food and drinks

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It’s always surprising when a stranger invents a rule that only benefits them.

What would you do if you were on a long flight and the moment you started eating a special meal, the person beside you acted offended? Would you say something? Or would you ignore them and keep eating?

In the following story, a traveler finds herself in this situation and decides to keep enjoying her food. Here’s what happened.

Seatmate in a flight complained that I started eating my special meal before theirs arrived

On long flights, I preorder a special meal online because I am a vegetarian.

On most flights, the flight attendant brings the special meals first and then starts the normal meal service for the rest.

On my last flight, a perfect stranger sat next to me and told me that I was rude and inconsiderate because I started eating my vegetarian food before their meal arrived.

The person got so worked up.

They said that it was a basic rule to wait until everyone in the row got their food and that I ruined their flight.

Their face was red, and they  rolled their eyes several times

I stared at them. This is next-level entitlement, right? We are not eating together on the same table in a restaurant.

Yikes! It’s hard to imagine getting upset over that.

Let’s check out what the people over at Reddit think about it.

This person thinks it’s funny.

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Here’s how this person feels about etiquette.

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For this person, she was free to enjoy her dinner.

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Yet another reader explaining table etiquette.

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There was no need to wait. Who knows how long it was going to take anyway, and she’s entitled to a warm meal.

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