January 13, 2026 at 9:23 pm

Renter Put Up With Nonstop Music For Weeks, So Their Roommates’ Inconsiderate Behavior Left Them No Choice But To Fight For Peace And Quiet

by Benjamin Cottrell

closeup of a loud speaker

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Living with others requires compromise, but it gets complicated when only one person seems willing to make any.

One renter found this out the hard way when their roommates insisted that loud music was non-negotiable, even after multiple requests to turn it down.

So as tensions grew and patience thinned, the drama pushed one renter to issue an ultimatum that just made their roommates dislike them more.

Read on for the full story.

AITA for not allowing music on speakers anymore in our room?

I live with 2 roommates. They both love listening to their music on a bluetooth speaker at loud volume all the time.

This renter tries to get them to stop, but these roommates don’t seem to care.

I told them many times to just turn it down a bit. Then, a few seconds later, they turn the volume back up because, to them, the music doesn’t sound nice if it’s not on full volume.

Finally, the renter reaches a breaking point, but their ultimatum only makes roommate relations worse.

I am so tired of their freaking music and the noise in general, so I threatened them with going to the principal if it keeps happening.

They stopped playing for now, but they keep complaining and talking crap behind my back.

Now they’re second-guessing themselves.

I feel bad and maybe unreasonable.

What do you think?

I think I am entitled to peace and quiet, and they feel entitled to music, so we constantly fight about it.

It’s this renter’s right to defend their comfort.

Redditors chime in with their thoughts.

A fundamental downside of having roommates is that you don’t just get to do whatever you want all the time.

Screenshot 2025 11 18 at 11.30.52 AM Renter Put Up With Nonstop Music For Weeks, So Their Roommates’ Inconsiderate Behavior Left Them No Choice But To Fight For Peace And Quiet

In fact, headphones were invented for this very reason.

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The beauty of earbuds is that you can play the music as loud as you want without bothering anyone else.

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Keeping music at a reasonable volume is just common courtesy.

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Ultimately, they handled things the only way they knew how after being constantly ignored.

This renter needed a home, not a nonstop concert.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.

Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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