April 8, 2026 at 10:48 am

Manager Tried To Fix A Staffing Shortage By Consulting HR, But Ego-Driven Associate Accused Her Of Jumping The Chain Of Command And Looped In The CEO To Make Her Look Bad

by Benjamin Cottrell

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A staffing shortage that nearly closes an entire clinic is the kind of problem that demands immediate action — not office politics.

When a healthcare manager asked HR to clarify the recruiting process after her clinic nearly had to shut its doors over a staffing gap, HR responded by copying the CEO on a pointed email accusing her of jumping the chain of command.

Suddenly, egos came before the patients.

Keep reading for the full story.

Asked HR a question and got scolded

I’m in a manager role at a healthcare practice.

Recruitment process is a nightmare, and the concerns I’ve voiced since starting almost came to fruition over the weekend — staff called out and we would potentially need to shut down the clinic if not resolved.

It soon became clear HR wasn’t on the same page at all.

On Monday, after HR posted a job without me first reviewing it, I asked HR if we could clearly define who is responsible for each step in the recruiting cycle.

This morning I got a nasty response accusing me of jumping the chain of command, with the CEO copied in on the response.

She doesn’t understand how this could be possible.

To make it clear, I report to a director, who reports to the CEO.

So how did I overstep when I asked HR about recruiting? Who else was I supposed to ask?

I feel that looping in the CEO is actually jumping the chain.

In her eyes, HR is pretty incompetent.

Our HR is a total mess, and the leadership is protecting their feelings instead of focusing on company functionality and performance.

I like the job, the physicians, and the staff — but HR is making it impossible to be successful.

She’s starting to question how far she’s willing to go for this job.

Luckily, I’m financially secure and have other streams of income, so if I get fired I’m fine.

But I don’t want to stress over asking a legitimate question.

What a nightmare.

Redditors chime in with their thoughts.

Some HR personnel tend to put their egos before their duties.

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Sometimes you just have to smother your enemies with corporate kindness.

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This user makes their distaste for HR very clear.

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This user shares what they would do in this situation.

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Clarifying a process that nearly shut down an entire clinic is not a chain of command violation — it’s literally just the right thing to do.

Clearly not everyone is cut out to work in HR.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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