She Gave Her Bestie Unlimited Freedom in Their Apartment—Then He Reached His Breaking Point
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Living with your partner means learning to love the people they love, even if their friends make that feel like an impossible task. Sometimes the hardest part of a relationship isn’t the two of you- it’s the supporting cast.
How would you handle your partner’s obnoxious friend coming over for free reign of your bathroom whenever they liked? One guy recently shared an insane example of this on Reddit. Here’s what went down.
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend’s friend stopping by to use the bathroom at 715 Monday morning?
This morning I get woken up at 7:15am by my girlfriend saying that her friend (Ashley) was stopping by to use the bathroom on the way to work, and was letting me know because it would be loud, because Ashley is very loud.
I do not like Ashley, not even a little.
Who would after this bizarre wake up call?
So I immediately leave until she’s gone because I’m not starting my day to the sound of her voice.
Who stops by someone’s house that early knowing everyone is getting ready for the day?
The reason I don’t like this woman is because every time we’ve hung out as couples, she always brings up my girlfriend’s ex.
That’s either wildly passive aggressive or wildly tone deaf.
I’m talking lengthy conversations and just keeps it going.
I set there once for 30 minutes listening to the 3 of them talk and I had nothing ti contribute.
I haven’t been back around the friend since.
Sounds like a fair enough boundary.
When I get back home I get screamed at and berated for being a coward and trying to control who she’s friends with.
I told her she could hang out with her whenever she wanted, but not to expect me to go, and that 7am bathroom stops were not going to happen anymore.
Especially the fact that she told me to be ready for it being loud, like how about Ashley adjusting herself to the environment and respecting someone else’s home.
Unfortunately, it sounds like this guy is making all good points.
I will absolutely not ‘adjust’ to someone else’s in my own home.
She says Ashley is just an ‘outspoken woman’ and I can’t handle ‘strong women’.
So now it’s come down to if I’m home she has no business coming to our house. So AITA?
This all seems to have escalated quite quickly. Let’s see how the Reddit community weighed in here.
The jury decided pretty quickly on Ashley.
And poked holes in the girlfriend’s argument pretty quickly.
Though some asked the important questions.
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A few were completely baffled by the story.
But one person cut right to the heart of the issue.
His house does NOT have an open-door policy…
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