October 31, 2025 at 1:15 pm

Bipolar Woman Doesn’t Want Her Phone To Distract Her While She Works From Home, And Her Family Is Mad She Doesn’t Respond To Calls Or Messages

by Ashley Ashbee

Woman typing at her computer in bed

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The problem with everyone having a cell phone is that your work or family might feel that means you’re always available to them.

But it doesn’t work that way. See how this person is practical about her phone.

AITA for keeping my phone on DND?

I am bipolar and I work from home.

It offends others that I literally don’t see attempts to make contact with me.

She has a very good reason for silence.

Yes I always have my phone in my hand, but I make money from my phone, but that doesn’t mean I’m available.

I get paid by the minute so for me if it doesn’t make dollars it doesn’t make sense. I don’t care about gossip and I don’t care to check in with anyone.

It baffles her that people in her life don’t get this.

I literally live in a bubble but I’m also very generous to my loved ones.

I just want them to respect my hustle and my mental health. Is that too much to ask for?

Here is what people are saying.

It’s a big deal.

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So what?

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A good compromise.

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Ick. Judgy much?

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I get where she is coming from, but it’s risky.

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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