July 20, 2023 at 10:08 pm

Man Wants to Know if He’s Wrong for Kicking His Sister Out of His House For Disrespecting His Wife

by Matthew Gilligan

AITAKickedSisterOut Man Wants to Know if He’s Wrong for Kicking His Sister Out of His House For Disrespecting His Wife

Sometimes, you just have to give a person the boot…

Even if they happen to be a family member!

But, as you can imagine, that will definitely lead to some bad feelings.

So is this guy an a**hole for kicking his sister out of his house?

Check out his story and see what you think.

AITA for kicking out my sister because she wouldn’t respect my wife?

“I (32M) and my wife (31F) sleep in separate bedrooms. It sounds a little weird but it isn’t. My wife has went through some things and one thing she refuses to do is sleep in the same room as someone. The only exception is babies and children.

She told me from the beginning she trusts me with every fiber of her being but she just cannot do it. Of course I didn’t care and I have my own little bat cave where I sleep.

Now here’s where the actual story is. My sister (27F) asked if she could stay over at our house for the weekend because apparently her and her roommate got into an argument. Me and my wife agreed and I told my sister about my wife’s room thing, if you know she’s sleeping don’t go in there. My sister was always kind of a spoiled brat but it really shone here, she complained that the bed in the quest room was to lumpy and she didn’t wanna sleep in my room because of my ‘man smell’.

After all this it was obvious that she would complain about the couch too. I told her my wife’s room was off limits and it was either the options we gave her or she could find a motel. She agreed and everything seemed fine, until I woke up at 3 in the d**n morning to my wife yelling along with my sister. When I went to go see what happened, my wife was crying, and my sister was just yelling back.

I learned now that my sister sleeps in her underwear, so that made it even worse. I got into the argument and starting yelling at my sister to get her c**p and get out. Had one rule and she broke it. Her last statement was calling my wife a crybaby. My wife told me that my sister was trying to sleep in her room, possibly trying to kick her out?

After that I got text messages and calls from my parents saying I was a horrible brother for kicking her out like that, and agreeing with her saying that my wife was a crybaby and she should suck it up.

Of course I just didn’t listen to it but my wife came to me and starting talking about how I could’ve handled it better, and how she got texts from my mother saying the same. She said later the same day that she has happy i protected her. Still don’t know why she said that, but it was probably my mother.

This is really for if I should just apologize and get my parents off my a**.

AITA?”

Take a look at what people had to say on Reddit.

This reader said he’s NTA and that her sister had plenty of options here.

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This individual said it sounds like her sister was being petty.

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And this Reddit user said this is all on his sister.

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Pro tip… having separate bedrooms is VERY nice.

Just saying…